"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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missed a good opportunity

frusciante1234

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so today i was at school outside having a cigarette before class and I missed the perfect opportunity to talk to a girl. Theres this weird girl who remembers me from high school and she follows me around trying to talk to me, I put up with her to be nice. So anyway, I am outside smoking and this weird girl is talking to me, and i notice out of my peripheral that this hot ass girl comes outside and stands right behind/next to me. I continued listening to the weird girl wondering why the hot girl was just standing there-and so close to me. The weird girl finally talked herself out and went inside, as soon as she left the hot girl smiled at me and asked me for a lighter. I said sure and i lit her cigarette for her. It was clumsy as she reached for the cig at the same time and she giggled over it. that was wen i should have said something. but iwas real tired and my brain wasnt working properly so i just walked inside..........oh well

have u guys ever been in a situation like that, or have any comments/suggestions on what u would have done
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ezily

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funny something like this happened to me today. I was at church for some event I sat next to some HB7 and she started talking to me. We actually had a pretty good convo (threw in some C&F, got her laughing, etc). However, due to the situation I knew that it would have been inappropriate to get her info so I let it go. Was hoping she would hang out afterwards so as to have the situation become normal, then I would have acted. but she was gone. Oh well.

in your situation I would have acted. It was actually a good setting. Based on my setting I can 100% assure you that at the time I talked to her it would have been bad.
 

frusciante1234

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i know I should have man it was just one of those mornings......im hoping i see her again one day cause she was exactly my type
 
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