"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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missed a good opportunity

frusciante1234

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so today i was at school outside having a cigarette before class and I missed the perfect opportunity to talk to a girl. Theres this weird girl who remembers me from high school and she follows me around trying to talk to me, I put up with her to be nice. So anyway, I am outside smoking and this weird girl is talking to me, and i notice out of my peripheral that this hot ass girl comes outside and stands right behind/next to me. I continued listening to the weird girl wondering why the hot girl was just standing there-and so close to me. The weird girl finally talked herself out and went inside, as soon as she left the hot girl smiled at me and asked me for a lighter. I said sure and i lit her cigarette for her. It was clumsy as she reached for the cig at the same time and she giggled over it. that was wen i should have said something. but iwas real tired and my brain wasnt working properly so i just walked inside..........oh well

have u guys ever been in a situation like that, or have any comments/suggestions on what u would have done
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ezily

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funny something like this happened to me today. I was at church for some event I sat next to some HB7 and she started talking to me. We actually had a pretty good convo (threw in some C&F, got her laughing, etc). However, due to the situation I knew that it would have been inappropriate to get her info so I let it go. Was hoping she would hang out afterwards so as to have the situation become normal, then I would have acted. but she was gone. Oh well.

in your situation I would have acted. It was actually a good setting. Based on my setting I can 100% assure you that at the time I talked to her it would have been bad.
 

frusciante1234

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i know I should have man it was just one of those mornings......im hoping i see her again one day cause she was exactly my type
 
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