"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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missed a good opportunity

frusciante1234

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so today i was at school outside having a cigarette before class and I missed the perfect opportunity to talk to a girl. Theres this weird girl who remembers me from high school and she follows me around trying to talk to me, I put up with her to be nice. So anyway, I am outside smoking and this weird girl is talking to me, and i notice out of my peripheral that this hot ass girl comes outside and stands right behind/next to me. I continued listening to the weird girl wondering why the hot girl was just standing there-and so close to me. The weird girl finally talked herself out and went inside, as soon as she left the hot girl smiled at me and asked me for a lighter. I said sure and i lit her cigarette for her. It was clumsy as she reached for the cig at the same time and she giggled over it. that was wen i should have said something. but iwas real tired and my brain wasnt working properly so i just walked inside..........oh well

have u guys ever been in a situation like that, or have any comments/suggestions on what u would have done
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ezily

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funny something like this happened to me today. I was at church for some event I sat next to some HB7 and she started talking to me. We actually had a pretty good convo (threw in some C&F, got her laughing, etc). However, due to the situation I knew that it would have been inappropriate to get her info so I let it go. Was hoping she would hang out afterwards so as to have the situation become normal, then I would have acted. but she was gone. Oh well.

in your situation I would have acted. It was actually a good setting. Based on my setting I can 100% assure you that at the time I talked to her it would have been bad.
 

frusciante1234

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i know I should have man it was just one of those mornings......im hoping i see her again one day cause she was exactly my type
 
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