Miss a chance, then rejected?

[Naked_Elephant]

Why do girls not respont to advances once you've missed an obvious opportunity?

Lets discuss...

 

[pimpin' reloaded>>]

miss a chance?

yo wassup dons?...ok for real...i think chicks work alot with their first instincts..she will throw you a chance hopin' or tryin to check if yu smart or yuz a wuss..miss it..trust me son she gon dump ya ass like a bad habit....its simple she'z out lookin for a thrill not marriage...



ok this ma debut contribution in here and a just wanna say you dons got a hell lotta game..

pimp on .. pimp strong!!

 

[squirrels]

Re: miss a chance?

Originally posted by pimpin' reloaded>>
yo wassup dons?...ok for real...i think chicks work alot with their first instincts..she will throw you a chance hopin' or tryin to check if yu smart or yuz a wuss..miss it..trust me son she gon dump ya ass like a bad habit....its simple she'z out lookin for a thrill not marriage...



ok this ma debut contribution in here and a just wanna say you dons got a hell lotta game..

pimp on .. pimp strong!!

If this is how they're teaching English in Uganda...I think we'd be better off trying to understand the native languages.

But he's right...a woman will only show buying signs for so long. If you don't close, she'll get bored of waiting and move on.

 

[crotchrocket]

I don't think these women get 'bored and move on', they get OFFENDED and RESENT you for it!

How many of us have looked back at a situation and realized 'she was giving me signs and I was blind to them' , and had this particular chic who once gave lots of friendly attention, start acting pi$$y and downright unfriendly? I sure have!

One mistake I used to make is assuming it was too late, 'opportunity missed-so next!' wrong, wrong. Any emotion directed toward you, good or bad is evidence that she still cares, it's here where you have to decide if she's worth the work it will now take. I personally like a challenge!

"Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned"

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Have you ever read a thread or article on "how and why women tests you"? I think this is related to this idea. They gave you a test and in their eyes you failed it. Once you fail a test with a women, you're usually screwed like that.

 

[Life-Trainee]

Hehe this is true. A girl I knew in 9th and 10th grades had a very strong crush on me. She manifested signs of high interest by offering me to copy her homework, asking me whether I liked a girl in the class, asking me all kinds of things. I missed all of her signs and I don't think she talked to me since the 10th grade. Afterwards she evaded my eye contact, and talking, I was surprised as to why.

 

[Desdinova]

yo wassup dons?...ok for real...i think chicks work alot with their first instincts..she will throw you a chance hopin' or tryin to check if yu smart or yuz a wuss

goddamm **** you gotta bag dem bitzes like you da gott it goin onz yo yo yo walkin' through the snow!

 

[Fatality]

I can relate to this. So do you guys think the girl somehow forces herself to dislike you after you miss her signs or does she just act this way because she feels rejected and doesn't want to boost your ego? I really can't imagine that your chances of hooking up with her are totally gone.

 

[Naked_Elephant]

bollocks

ive known her for a LONG time, we´re sort of friends but there's lots of touching and flirting going on. It's hard to believe she'd ****tease me just for he hell of it (she knows I haven't had sex for a while and am particularly horny)

She did an obvious come on while we were sleeping together (YES i missed an opportunity after she was getting all hot in bed i AM an idiot).

 

[ScrewIt]

yes this is weird, i think this happened to me today.

i think maybe the reason they do this is to not seem desperate? or doing a little play hard to get or something.

they gave you opportunity, u didnt jump on it. now you'll have to work for it?? i have a feeling thats what they do.

 

[Naked_Elephant]

ok so im not giving up

gonna keep on flirting and stuff. bad thing is, i did the same to her last year. i know i know...

 

[christz]

Originally posted by crotchrocket
I don't think these women get 'bored and move on', they get OFFENDED and RESENT you for it!

How many of us have looked back at a situation and realized 'she was giving me signs and I was blind to them' , and had this particular chic who once gave lots of friendly attention, start acting pi$$y and downright unfriendly? I sure have!

One mistake I used to make is assuming it was too late, 'opportunity missed-so next!' wrong, wrong. Any emotion directed toward you, good or bad is evidence that she still cares, it's here where you have to decide if she's worth the work it will now take. I personally like a challenge!

"Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned"

this is true and untrue in some cases

sure if the girls pissed at you she still cares obviously because if you didn't care about somebody why the hell would you be mad? But that anger could actually be the driving force behind her saying

uhh yeah GTFO! and keep it that way.

i think petty anger like omg i hate you, is cool then its a challenge. but deep seeded hatred the type that nobody see's that's the stuff that you can never come back from.

 

[ScrewIt]

Originally posted by crotchrocket
I don't think these women get 'bored and move on', they get OFFENDED and RESENT you for it!

i think you may have stumbled onto something. there was this girl ijn one of my classes ealrier this semester she would occasionally come up to me say or hi or see how i was doing. then when we got into the group project together she was doing more of that and wanted to know more about me. she got my email and my # since she wanted it. But i knew she wouldnt even use it anyway. I knew she liked me and was interested. But i showed absolutely no interest and treated her like anyone else, cause i simply didnt like her. At the last day of the group project, she knew she was wasting her time and that i didnt like her one bit. So after that day, she has not said one word to me at all or talked to me. Good riddens too!!

But once in awhile if im talking to another female or something, she'll be looking my way or at the corner of her eye.

Before i read your post i had believed she moved on, but maybe she just resents me!! woohooooooo
Wheter or not she was offended, she has no right, as i never showed interest in her ever.

 

[Naked_Elephant]

ok, she doesnt "fancy me"

Makes me think...
did i really have a chance?
we were in her bed together, talking about sex, and about her vibrator, about how "good it felt inside her", and how she "prefers the feeling of a man inside her"
she also said that she would show it to me if I was really really nice to her.

Today though, ie. a couple of weeks later... after an afc conversation with her she tells me she doesn't fancy me. She's made it pretty clear that she's not attracted to me.

She still wants to be friends. This is not the first time something like this happens with this girl (yes, oneitis). She was quite a good friend but I'm thinking she doesn't deserve to have me after this bull**** avalanche and her general ****teasing.

Any opinions? Spill your guts guys.

Thanks.

 

[Naked_Elephant]

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