"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Misandry & Relationships

Nutz

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http://www.city-data.com/forum/relationships/862031-misandry-relationships.html

Feel free to stop by and post your thoughts. I also wanted to get a discussion going over here about how things are shaping up in western society and where things are going. As the author of the article points out, it doesn't look good at all. Yes, eventually, misandry will be looked down upon and men will start being afforded the same benefits women have enjoyed as special treatment. The bad news is that the system at large won't be able to support the weight of all the extra benefits both genders will be recieving.

I also like the mention of Venusian Arts and the effects it's having on men by making them realize they don't have to stand for being marginalized and empowerign them with choice.

Also, there's a term he coined that I just loved:

In the past, the steady hand of a young woman's mother and grandmother knew that her beauty was temporary, and that the most seductive man was not the best husband, and they made sure that the girl was married off to a boy with long-term durability. Now that this guidance has been removed from the lives of young women, thanks to 'feminism', these women are proving to be poor pilots of their mating lives who pursue alpha males until the age of 34-36 when her desirability drops precipitously and not even beta males she used to reject are interested in her. This stunning drop in her desirability to men is known as the Wile E. Coyote moment, and women of yesteryear had many safety nets that protected them from this fate. The 'feminist' media's attempt to normalize 'cougarhood' is evidence of gasping desperation.
The "Wile E. Coyote moment". Awesome! :D


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The article in question was this one:

http://www.singularity2050.com/2010/01/the-misandry-bubble.htm

I contacted the moderator (thread was originally locked and left for all to read), but this is what SHE had to say, "I am not going to change the status as each post was riddled with insults and attacks which are against TOS."
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jitterbug

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That term has been around in economics papers for a few decades now, but it's pretty apt.
 

synergy1

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I love the city data forums and was posting there nearly 1 year ago. A lot of level headed discussions without much ego. I didn't really look into their relationship forums since I had SS though.

On the subject at hand: glad to see that the S.S community isn't the only one to see feminism as a negative aspect of our culture.
 

bigjohnson

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A woman I used to talk to said something like "feminism has ruined sex and Hollywood has ruined romance", which is a nice summary in my opinion.
 
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