Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Misandry & Relationships

Nutz

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http://www.city-data.com/forum/relationships/862031-misandry-relationships.html

Feel free to stop by and post your thoughts. I also wanted to get a discussion going over here about how things are shaping up in western society and where things are going. As the author of the article points out, it doesn't look good at all. Yes, eventually, misandry will be looked down upon and men will start being afforded the same benefits women have enjoyed as special treatment. The bad news is that the system at large won't be able to support the weight of all the extra benefits both genders will be recieving.

I also like the mention of Venusian Arts and the effects it's having on men by making them realize they don't have to stand for being marginalized and empowerign them with choice.

Also, there's a term he coined that I just loved:

In the past, the steady hand of a young woman's mother and grandmother knew that her beauty was temporary, and that the most seductive man was not the best husband, and they made sure that the girl was married off to a boy with long-term durability. Now that this guidance has been removed from the lives of young women, thanks to 'feminism', these women are proving to be poor pilots of their mating lives who pursue alpha males until the age of 34-36 when her desirability drops precipitously and not even beta males she used to reject are interested in her. This stunning drop in her desirability to men is known as the Wile E. Coyote moment, and women of yesteryear had many safety nets that protected them from this fate. The 'feminist' media's attempt to normalize 'cougarhood' is evidence of gasping desperation.
The "Wile E. Coyote moment". Awesome! :D


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The article in question was this one:

http://www.singularity2050.com/2010/01/the-misandry-bubble.htm

I contacted the moderator (thread was originally locked and left for all to read), but this is what SHE had to say, "I am not going to change the status as each post was riddled with insults and attacks which are against TOS."
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Jitterbug

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That term has been around in economics papers for a few decades now, but it's pretty apt.
 

synergy1

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I love the city data forums and was posting there nearly 1 year ago. A lot of level headed discussions without much ego. I didn't really look into their relationship forums since I had SS though.

On the subject at hand: glad to see that the S.S community isn't the only one to see feminism as a negative aspect of our culture.
 

bigjohnson

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A woman I used to talk to said something like "feminism has ruined sex and Hollywood has ruined romance", which is a nice summary in my opinion.
 
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