"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I found this really interesting recently discussed here on the forum

So there are some cases, which you can see the woman is actually in intense "oneitis" for her male partner. (Some examples here)

What I like the most about this, it's actually the ability of that woman to stay focused on that man, for long.
In this case, those kind of women, are actually so rare to find. (expecially nowadays when you have an attention span of 12 seconds).

I wonder if you ever experienced something like this..
I mean, you could really be anyone, your SMV could really be at any level, yet, there will always be someone that will look at you like that.
All it takes is exposing yourself to many women as possible.
You don't ever ask or question yourself about your current relationship, knowing that a woman that is into you, will actually look like that.


Some examples you cannot explain
https://www.reddit.com/r/GirlsMirin/comments/1mxst5s https://www.reddit.com/r/GirlsMirin/comments/1mlr98s https://www.reddit.com/r/GirlsMirin/comments/1mjl3lx https://www.reddit.com/r/GirlsMirin/comments/1m63ei1/mirin_my_husband_for_the_last_12_years/
https://www.reddit.com/r/GirlsMirin/comments/1ooupxd/always_mirin_my_handsome_husband/
https://www.reddit.com/r/GirlsMirin/comments/1nt4noh/cant_wait_to_marry_this_man_soon/#lightbox
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I found this topic while searching for the word mirin.

Dont you guys think that mirin its just like being on oneitis?

I mean you can find Scarlett Johanson to mirin every man he dated.
 

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I found this topic while searching for the word mirin.

Dont you guys think that mirin its just like being on oneitis?

I mean you can find Scarlett Johanson to mirin every man he dated.
Lolz Jhonny you should be searching "how to expatriate from Italy" instead

In other parts of the world, some women do genuinely cherish and are grateful for the man/men in their life, in a non-nagging and non-combative (i.e., healthy) way.

What countries have you considered? By your posting history, your country of origin is not good for your mental health.
 
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Lolz Jhonny you should be searching "how to expatriate from Italy" instead



In other parts of the world, some women do genuinely cherish and are grateful for the man/men in their life, in a non-nagging and non-combative (i.e., healthy) way.



What countries have you considered? By your posting history, your country of origin is not good for your mental health.
Italy is a truly beautiful place.
Especially if you have to build a family.
That said, it has its challenges rooted in culture.
Women want to be in charge in the relationship.

I'm sure you have more experience than me, and could recommend better countries.
Having said that, does it depend on the country, or the culture in which the woman grew up..?
 

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Italy is a truly beautiful place.
Especially if you have to build a family.
That said, it has its challenges rooted in culture.
Women want to be in charge in the relationship.

I'm sure you have more experience than me, and could recommend better countries.
Having said that, does it depend on the country, or the culture in which the woman grew up..?
Tbh Mexico might be the best with your height and the women are submissive, the geography isn't too different from Italy but you might have to live in the north or at a higher elevation to avoid the tropical heat. If that's too far, probably France as the women are sensual but less alpha and more feminine than Italianas. Plus it's not a strictly Mediterranean country (the whole area tends to have difficult women).
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tbh Mexico might be the best with your height and the women are submissive, the geography isn't too different from Italy but you might have to live in the north or at a higher elevation to avoid the tropical heat. If that's too far, probably France as the women are sensual but less alpha and more feminine than Italianas. Plus it's not a strictly Mediterranean country (the whole area tends to have difficult women).
Thanks for your suggestion and analysis.
I get that. Do you think many other places here in Europe should get more credit?
For example, I like switzerland, what about that?
 

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Thanks for your suggestion and analysis.
I get that. Do you think many other places here in Europe should get more credit?
For example, I like switzerland, what about that?
Bruh...where ever you go there you'll be.

You can't run away from yourself as uncle Bob once said in that beautiful song. It's ludicrous to move to another continent just for p00sy. Let alone a cartel infested country like me-hico...cmon now!..

You should simply focus on getting your money up, get the mental fortitude that's needed and find out what's the best way YOU can deal.with women.

The biggest mistake men make is letting their culture/ religion decide how they should live their life...

 
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I found this really interesting recently discussed here on the forum

So there are some cases, which you can see the woman is actually in intense "oneitis" for her male partner. (Some examples here)

What I like the most about this, it's actually the ability of that woman to stay focused on that man, for long.
In this case, those kind of women, are actually so rare to find. (expecially nowadays when you have an attention span of 12 seconds).

I wonder if you ever experienced something like this..
I mean, you could really be anyone, your SMV could really be at any level, yet, there will always be someone that will look at you like that.
All it takes is exposing yourself to many women as possible.
You don't ever ask or question yourself about your current relationship, knowing that a woman that is into you, will actually look like that.


Some examples you cannot explain
https://www.reddit.com/r/GirlsMirin/comments/1mxst5s https://www.reddit.com/r/GirlsMirin/comments/1mlr98s https://www.reddit.com/r/GirlsMirin/comments/1mjl3lx https://www.reddit.com/r/GirlsMirin/comments/1m63ei1/mirin_my_husband_for_the_last_12_years/
https://www.reddit.com/r/GirlsMirin/comments/1ooupxd/always_mirin_my_handsome_husband/
https://www.reddit.com/r/GirlsMirin/comments/1nt4noh/cant_wait_to_marry_this_man_soon/#lightbox
Yeah, one of the many aspects of women. They have the ability to hyper focus on one man only, and why him ? Nobody knows...

It's one of the reasons why 99% of men believe that their soulmate is out there somewhere. And yet, the search for a similar soulmate type of woman is the thing that can absolutely demolish a man. Is it realistic or just a pipedream?

Here's my advice regarding this topic: luck happens when preparation meets opportunity. Im all about CREATING" luck". It's a slow process that takes patience and effort, but yhe results can be magnificent.
 

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Bruh...where ever you go there you'll be.

You can't run away from yourself as uncle Bob once said in that beautiful song. It's ludicrous to move to another continent just for p00sy. Let alone a cartel infested country like me-hico...cmon now!..

You should simply focus on getting your money up, get the mental fortitude that's needed and find out what's the best way YOU can deal.with women.

The biggest mistake men make is letting their culture/ religion decide how they should live their life...

Dude... you can't...
The culture is there, you really can't ignore it.
Either you embrace it, or you isolate yourself.
Do you know what I mean?
Im all about CREATING" luck". It's a slow process that takes patience and effort, but yhe results can be magnificent.
Interesting
A "slow process" means you're focused on someethings.
This means you think about something, costantly, everyday.
What's that?
 
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