Minimum time for no contact?

[John.Peter151]

Hey guys,

As I've read in an e-book, a women usually starts missing you at the time of 3-4 weeks. Is this really a sychlogical fact or just an example estimation?

Did anyone here ever had success with the No contact rule to get their ex back, or to rebuild attraction?

What is the minimum time we should be knowing in which we shoudn't be expecting to hear from our girl friend, in case of a breakup.

Thanks..

 

[Purefilth]

Life

 

[Skalioppe]

NC is about focusing and repairing yourself and getting over your ex. It's not designed for getting an ex back.

However, in some of the articles I've read, missing someone due to absence seems to start at about one month and peak at about 2 months. After 3 months they are normally over any need for you and probably busy sucking another guy's c0ck anyway.

When I've gone NC, I pretty much get contacted in the first week (what I call the swansong contact - last ditch attempt to keep you worshipping them again) and then again during the 4-6 week (when they probably do miss you).

Don't rely on NC for getting someone back, 85-90% of the time you'll end up disappointed.

 

[Renegade357]

As I've read in an e-book, a women usually starts missing you at the time of 3-4 weeks. Is this really a sychlogical fact or just an example estimation?
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There is no limit, the girl will contact you based on what's going on with her life. It could be 2 weeks, it could be 2 years, it could be never. When and if she does finally contact you she'll do it for several possible reasons. She may want validation. She may strike out with the other guy. She may want to screw with your head. She may be bored. Do any of these reasons sound good?

Generally if you've resorted to NC the relatoinship is dead or will most certainly be in due time. The only instance in which NC has worked for me is when I dump the girl first. And I always regret taking them back. Which is why I don't do it anymore. I use NC strictly to get over women. You should do the same.

 

[Uberguy]

Hey guys,

As I've read in an e-book, a women usually starts missing you at the time of 3-4 weeks. Is this really a sychlogical fact or just an example estimation?

Did anyone here ever had success with the No contact rule to get their ex back, or to rebuild attraction?

What is the minimum time we should be knowing in which we shoudn't be expecting to hear from our girl friend, in case of a breakup.

Thanks..

1) "Pyschological".

2) No Contact should be used for a lifetime. I've never seen an example of two people getting back together after a breakup and having it work out well in the long run. Either they end up breaking up again, getting married and then getting divorced, or still in a miserable relationship but with both parties too afraid of being alone to actually end something they both hate.

Move on. There's 3.5 billion proverbial fish in the sea. Quite a few of them are going to be a better catch.

 

[Purefilth]

1) "Pyschological".

2) No Contact should be used for a lifetime. I've never seen an example of two people getting back together after a breakup and having it work out well in the long run. Either they end up breaking up again, getting married and then getting divorced, or still in a miserable relationship but with both parties too afraid of being alone to actually end something they both hate.

Move on. There's 3.5 billion proverbial fish in the sea. Quite a few of them are going to be a better catch.

Ahem.. "Psychological"

 

[georgie24]

agreed with what everyone else is saying

NC is for your own personal sake, if your doing it with motives of emotional manipulation then i or anyone else cant help you, thats your one way ticket to your own destiny

 

[Uberguy]

Ahem.. "Psychological"

HAHAHAHA! I deserved that.

 

[Purefilth]

HAHAHAHA! I deserved that.

:crackup: yep