"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mini-break

Murk

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So to sum up my life in 2018 - I broke up with my ex mid Jan - went on a rampage of dating and OLD. Caught chlamydia twice, drank waaay too much and spent way too much on nights out with nothing to show for it.

I've decided to go on a mini-break... not quite monk mode, if anyone reaches out I will try to bang but I am not making it a focus now. No more OLD swiping and no going out after work drinking. I will go out to events and places with friends but no more 2 day benders.

It's been 10 days since my last date/sex and I don't miss it, I just want to be a better more focused person. I also have just over 2 months to make £40,000 for my company to get a 10% pay rise which I'll be using to leverage a better salary in a new firm as soon as they give it to me. Basically I feel like I have to grow up and work hard because 2018 thus far as been a total joke - mainly due to women, drugs and alcohol.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The Duke

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Balance is the key to a happy & rewarding life.
 
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