"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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mingling with ugly girls and other guys

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Im not going to lie here. Most of the time when I head into a crowded drinking area, I do get a little nervous... that is before I get to drinking. Maybe I should start drinking beforehand.

The point is, I usually just know the one or two people that I came with, so I feel like I should set up rapport with other people. Honestly, I am usually one of the better looking guys wherever I go, but I always find myself starting off talking to other guys or the fun looking ugly girls, and then working my way up the ladder, until at the end of the night, I know like half the bar, and am finally starting to talk to the pretty ones.

I would like to say the point of me going out is to have fun, which to some extent it is, but we all know that we go out to find some slut and **** her. The problem with starting slow is that it really messes up the numbers game, and I feel like I am overly invested into the final few ladies that I talk to that are actually ****able.



is this helping to build social proof? or is it a DLV? like, this guy is really sociable? or this guy does not have the balls to directly approach the finer women in the room. how do you guys do it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lol, Starting drinking early should be for fun, not the nerves. Don't worry about approaching the "fun girls". Just focus on what you went there to do. And go after that ****. If you have confidence. Then you can't lose. And if you do get rejected. Then you'll just have learned a couple things not to do.
 
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powpow said:
Im not going to lie here. Most of the time when I head into a crowded drinking area, I do get a little nervous... that is before I get to drinking. Maybe I should start drinking beforehand.

The point is, I usually just know the one or two people that I came with, so I feel like I should set up rapport with other people. Honestly, I am usually one of the better looking guys wherever I go, but I always find myself starting off talking to other guys or the fun looking ugly girls, and then working my way up the ladder, until at the end of the night, I know like half the bar, and am finally starting to talk to the pretty ones.

I would like to say the point of me going out is to have fun, which to some extent it is, but we all know that we go out to find some slut and **** her. The problem with starting slow is that it really messes up the numbers game, and I feel like I am overly invested into the final few ladies that I talk to that are actually ****able.



is this helping to build social proof? or is it a DLV? like, this guy is really sociable? or this guy does not have the balls to directly approach the finer women in the room. how do you guys do it?
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you sound very balanced.
Please stay just like this.
cause pretty girls will see you talking to girls they know are obviously less attractive than them and will think. Ha this guy is fun and sociable. And when you talk to her they won't feel like you're just talking to them to get some :) which is not offending at all but feels like you are not very fun and make them feel liek whatever you say they aim will be to score them.
So yes, if you do the way you do right now it's perfect. The hot girl will think want to score them as well since you end up with them but also that you're nice and sociable and fun. This way you score And build a social network.
perfect perfect perfect.

also i would add: don't talk to not pretty girls like you want to score them. Make it obviously friendly for the hot girl that might notice you're talking to the ugly. Maybe while you're talking with the less attractive girls, look around if you can make eye contact/smile with a hot girl that would be looking in your direction. Then just stop looking at her/ don't approach her straight away and keep talking the less attractive/fun ones.
 
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powpow said:
man I have confidence for DAYS... after Ive been drinking lol
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Lol! Nothing wrong with that! You already have everything working well for you so far, try bringing some female friends to the bar with you next time? It sounds weird but it works wonders.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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