Mindset to handle rejection without getting crushed :

[mastergame]

Still a guy that I have been following for a while now, good mindset on rejection and inner game build :

what do you think ? Nice approach I think.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Still a guy that I have been following for a while now, good mindset on rejection and inner game build :

what do you think ? Nice approach I think.

Plates or a actual GF makes rejection not bother you cause you can go home and bone one of them. When your out there all along with no options, it's hard for it not to bother you at least a little.

 

[marmel75]

If a random chick you don't know rejecting you "crushes" you, you are one weak minded individual.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Two points, as is TMK's usual way.

-Abundance of options and richness of life takes the sting out a lost plate or GF.

-If you're pining after one girl, (which you shouldn't have to, if you are in abundance), remember back to the girl before her, and realise how little you pine for her now. That exact same process will happen when you meet another new girl, and you'll completely forget about all those in the past, once again. The point being, live and learn to stop fcking up with women you like.

 

[The Duke]

I've never really cared what people think of me as long as they don't attack my character. Rejection and failure is part of learning to be successful.

I've always thought "spinning plates" was an artificial method of handling rejection. Thats for weak minded men who need to protect their ego. Just as a constant supply of "attention" is for an attractive female. Its what they turn to when they don't get what they want. How about fixing whats wrong inside and deal with the issue? Why do you need a female for validation? Why aren't you strong enough internally to go with out?

Spinning plates isn't very alpha to me. Its a bunch of game playing, fabricated stories, and lies, more like something a female would think up. Thats too much to keep up with just to soften the blow of rejection. I'd rather work on being a better person that can handle it, than creating some artificial solution.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I've never really cared what people think of me as long as they don't attack my character. Rejection and failure is part of learning to be successful.

I've always thought "spinning plates" was an artificial method of handling rejection. Thats for weak minded men who need to protect their ego. Just as a constant supply of "attention" is for an attractive female. Its what they turn to when they don't get what they want. How about fixing whats wrong inside and deal with the issue? Why do you need a female for validation? Why aren't you strong enough internally to go with out?

Spinning plates isn't very alpha to me. Its a bunch of game playing, fabricated stories, and lies, more like something a female would think up. Thats too much to keep up with just to soften the blow of rejection. I'd rather work on being a better person that can handle it, than creating some artificial solution.

Females where the original plate spinners. It's preached in feminism.

 

[RedZone]

The hardest part in life is to take that first step. Once, you do though, you realize all the things you fear really aren't that bad. Rejection isn't fun, but in a way it's one of the best things that can happen to you. The only way to learn/grow is to go through rough patches. Honestly, without rejection/failure life would be very boring and you wouldn't want to push yourself to be the best.

 

[Vivacity]

Abundance mentality. There are countless single women (there are, really) in this world and she is one of those countless women.

She is one of those countless targets you are aiming for. You need to hit only one target. Does it really bother you if you miss a target or few targets considering that there are many other targets you can aim at and you have a realistic chance to hit them?

 

[guru1000]

Without rejection, I'm not prompted to improve, and thus stagnate.

Therefore, I embrace rejection. The funny thing about rejection: The more I embrace rejection, the less I get.

 

[SuckItUp]

I've never really cared what people think of me as long as they don't attack my character. Rejection and failure is part of learning to be successful.

I've always thought "spinning plates" was an artificial method of handling rejection. Thats for weak minded men who need to protect their ego. Just as a constant supply of "attention" is for an attractive female. Its what they turn to when they don't get what they want. How about fixing whats wrong inside and deal with the issue? Why do you need a female for validation? Why aren't you strong enough internally to go with out?

Spinning plates isn't very alpha to me. Its a bunch of game playing, fabricated stories, and lies, more like something a female would think up. Thats too much to keep up with just to soften the blow of rejection. I'd rather work on being a better person that can handle it, than creating some artificial solution.

"Spinning plates" is a biological imperative for the male sex of Homo sapiens species. It has nothing to do with one's alphaness anymore than oneitis has to do with one's betaness.

You can spin plates and still be a beta, just as you can have oneitis and be an alpha.

Part of the human condition is socializing and reproducing so spinning plates at least in theory is much more about enjoying and sampling women so you get an idea of what it is you want or do want.

Most people don't just test drive one car and buy it. They test drive several cars so they find the car that meets their needs and fits the best.

Of course YMMV but spinning plates is use as a fake it to you make it remedy so eventually you get to a point where you are choosing to spend time with a variety with woman in lieu of trying to avoid hurt.

 

[marmel75]

I've never really cared what people think of me as long as they don't attack my character. Rejection and failure is part of learning to be successful.

I've always thought "spinning plates" was an artificial method of handling rejection. Thats for weak minded men who need to protect their ego. Just as a constant supply of "attention" is for an attractive female. Its what they turn to when they don't get what they want. How about fixing whats wrong inside and deal with the issue? Why do you need a female for validation? Why aren't you strong enough internally to go with out?

Spinning plates isn't very alpha to me. Its a bunch of game playing, fabricated stories, and lies, more like something a female would think up. Thats too much to keep up with just to soften the blow of rejection. I'd rather work on being a better person that can handle it, than creating some artificial solution.

I don't view it that way at all.

In pretty much every aspect of life, people with few options put way too much importance on the options they do have. It's the equivalent of making sure you can comfortably pay your rent instead of trying to scrape up the money on the 1st or 2nd of every month by pawning a bunch of things. Lack of options leads to behaviors that are counter-productive regardless of how well "trained" you think you are. You will end up slipping up at some point simply by the nature of lacking options. You will start over-analyzing things she says, etc...

These things happen far less often when you have multiple women you are dealing with because you simply don't place as much importance on things.

It's the reverse of the saying "that which is always available has little value", which holds true in just about everything and especially in economics.

 

[Silko]

Honestly, without rejection/failure life would be very boring and you wouldn't want to push yourself to be the best.

True, even in whatever situation I get rejected, I always have a reaction like: Wait & watch me.

Failing or rejection should be validated as learning. A lot of people in my parental family can't coop with loss/rejection/mistakes. They blame quickly other once.
This was the most unhealthy environment I lived in ... they still act like that. But they're still so unsecure about themself ... and pretending they are strong characters.

So, embrace trial & error & do better in your life. It makes the best of you.