"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mind Movies - the key to better inner game

Blackgame

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ok most of you know I am a proponent of everything inner game... and have been since the badboy forums...

so I am all for affirmations and visualizations - the problem is how ever, that many including myself tend to mental m**tur**t instead of being positive and uplifting we get attached to the outcome and get all depressed when something dont work out....

the solution?

mind movies

the basic premise is simple... you put together a collection of pics, audio clips, movies ect into one singular movie that will work as a concentrated visual and audible affirmation

the movie speaks to you... its made for you, the images and sounds you put in it are for you only... lets say I put my a tree in my movie to represent money you might go wtf but it speaks to me- thats all that matters

every one who has a pc has windows movie maker so no excuses

you are only limited by your own imagination :)


-tp
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Alternatively there are a few mindmovies which have some cool visualization mindmovies which you can download, which can be useful.
 

Galactus

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This sounds interesting, but I don't have a clue what you're talking about. Can you explain in more detail?
 

Blackgame

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Galactus said:
This sounds interesting, but I don't have a clue what you're talking about. Can you explain in more detail?

well you open up windows move maker so some sort of movie maker program and you collect pics,sounds, etc and you put them in a movie format then you watch it, 2 to 3 times a day.

example if you want women and money in your life pics of women and things that represent money would be ideal.

the idea is to use this movie in the place of affirmations/visualizations
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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