"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mind Movies - the key to better inner game

Blackgame

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ok most of you know I am a proponent of everything inner game... and have been since the badboy forums...

so I am all for affirmations and visualizations - the problem is how ever, that many including myself tend to mental m**tur**t instead of being positive and uplifting we get attached to the outcome and get all depressed when something dont work out....

the solution?

mind movies

the basic premise is simple... you put together a collection of pics, audio clips, movies ect into one singular movie that will work as a concentrated visual and audible affirmation

the movie speaks to you... its made for you, the images and sounds you put in it are for you only... lets say I put my a tree in my movie to represent money you might go wtf but it speaks to me- thats all that matters

every one who has a pc has windows movie maker so no excuses

you are only limited by your own imagination :)


-tp
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alternatively there are a few mindmovies which have some cool visualization mindmovies which you can download, which can be useful.
 

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This sounds interesting, but I don't have a clue what you're talking about. Can you explain in more detail?
 

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Galactus said:
This sounds interesting, but I don't have a clue what you're talking about. Can you explain in more detail?

well you open up windows move maker so some sort of movie maker program and you collect pics,sounds, etc and you put them in a movie format then you watch it, 2 to 3 times a day.

example if you want women and money in your life pics of women and things that represent money would be ideal.

the idea is to use this movie in the place of affirmations/visualizations
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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