"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mind Movies - the key to better inner game

Blackgame

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ok most of you know I am a proponent of everything inner game... and have been since the badboy forums...

so I am all for affirmations and visualizations - the problem is how ever, that many including myself tend to mental m**tur**t instead of being positive and uplifting we get attached to the outcome and get all depressed when something dont work out....

the solution?

mind movies

the basic premise is simple... you put together a collection of pics, audio clips, movies ect into one singular movie that will work as a concentrated visual and audible affirmation

the movie speaks to you... its made for you, the images and sounds you put in it are for you only... lets say I put my a tree in my movie to represent money you might go wtf but it speaks to me- thats all that matters

every one who has a pc has windows movie maker so no excuses

you are only limited by your own imagination :)


-tp
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Alternatively there are a few mindmovies which have some cool visualization mindmovies which you can download, which can be useful.
 

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This sounds interesting, but I don't have a clue what you're talking about. Can you explain in more detail?
 

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Galactus said:
This sounds interesting, but I don't have a clue what you're talking about. Can you explain in more detail?

well you open up windows move maker so some sort of movie maker program and you collect pics,sounds, etc and you put them in a movie format then you watch it, 2 to 3 times a day.

example if you want women and money in your life pics of women and things that represent money would be ideal.

the idea is to use this movie in the place of affirmations/visualizations
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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