"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mind games...what do you do?

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Don Juan Wannabe

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So to make it quick I've been hitting it off with this chick for a while, haven't been taking it too seriously but started to notice some chemistry there. So planned on asking her out to one of our football games, but during one of our conversations she just slips in the fact that she has like 2dates lined up before I say a word. So I act cool, don't let it bother me, hell even later I joke about it. A bit before she had found me on myspace and we got to chatting over the weekend, I told her I thought that maybe there was something there between us and while im not insecure, I don't give a **** who she hangs out with. I'm not going to compete for her attention, that I won't be her monkey. So from there she like immediatly goes oh yah um I don't even like any of them...and I was thinking the same thing. So Im just like thinkin WHAT? Anyways, its been a couple of these stupid **** tests one after another

What do you do when a girl your interested in just slips in the fact that she has a date or tells you that she has alot of guys desperately after her? How well did I handle myself?


Thanks guys
-Peace-
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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you did pretty well laddi.

but we've all been through these test. From my experience ive used a couple of things that worked really well.

1.) Not give a sh1t about whose after her, because im the prize and not one of those needy guys whose drooling for her.

2.) Do the same to her, interact with others and tell her about it. How there are a couple of girls from your neighborhood who are after you, but from your experience with women you see that must of them dont pass your requirements. (then elaborate on what you require in a girl)

3.) Use some C&F. Tell her to see if any of those guys have a hot sister so you 4 can go on a double date.

you have to just be chill about it. I know its hella hard, especialy when its a girl you like. But always have this phrase in your mind "theres always some one who will suit my needs better than her"

Now and days its so easy for me to get women even though i dont go sarging that much any more because i see how much girls degrade them selves.

They make the retardest decisions for the most stupid purposes (fitting in, attention, etc..)

I could really care less how it goes, but when i do meet someone thats worth it i have the outermost respect for them.

good luck bud, ace those sh1t tests
 
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