"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mind games...what do you do?

Don Juan Wannabe

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So to make it quick I've been hitting it off with this chick for a while, haven't been taking it too seriously but started to notice some chemistry there. So planned on asking her out to one of our football games, but during one of our conversations she just slips in the fact that she has like 2dates lined up before I say a word. So I act cool, don't let it bother me, hell even later I joke about it. A bit before she had found me on myspace and we got to chatting over the weekend, I told her I thought that maybe there was something there between us and while im not insecure, I don't give a **** who she hangs out with. I'm not going to compete for her attention, that I won't be her monkey. So from there she like immediatly goes oh yah um I don't even like any of them...and I was thinking the same thing. So Im just like thinkin WHAT? Anyways, its been a couple of these stupid **** tests one after another

What do you do when a girl your interested in just slips in the fact that she has a date or tells you that she has alot of guys desperately after her? How well did I handle myself?


Thanks guys
-Peace-
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Charm&Style

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you did pretty well laddi.

but we've all been through these test. From my experience ive used a couple of things that worked really well.

1.) Not give a sh1t about whose after her, because im the prize and not one of those needy guys whose drooling for her.

2.) Do the same to her, interact with others and tell her about it. How there are a couple of girls from your neighborhood who are after you, but from your experience with women you see that must of them dont pass your requirements. (then elaborate on what you require in a girl)

3.) Use some C&F. Tell her to see if any of those guys have a hot sister so you 4 can go on a double date.

you have to just be chill about it. I know its hella hard, especialy when its a girl you like. But always have this phrase in your mind "theres always some one who will suit my needs better than her"

Now and days its so easy for me to get women even though i dont go sarging that much any more because i see how much girls degrade them selves.

They make the retardest decisions for the most stupid purposes (fitting in, attention, etc..)

I could really care less how it goes, but when i do meet someone thats worth it i have the outermost respect for them.

good luck bud, ace those sh1t tests
 
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