niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
@shouldbefun good just tying to help bro so you don't make the same mistakes we did
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Mind games girls like to play
- Thread starter shouldbefun
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
touma.akagi
Senior Don Juan
This is why OLD is kind of lame, many women will chat you with zero intentions of meeting.
Many of us have made the mistake of spinning our wheels over a girl and are embarrassed by it, so the advice is harsh because we wish we could smack our old selves in the face for getting it wrong the first time. It’s not personal. That being said, if you haven’t already, you will date girls who will be so available to you it’ll blow your mind. I have told a girl with no prior warning “hey, if you can come over in 30 minutes I’ll have wine waiting for you” and she has shown up on the dot. Once you have a girl like that, even if she’s not your dream girl, you will never put up with flakes again.