"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Millionaire Matchmaker

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Interesting show and it proves that even if you're a multimillionaire, you don't automatically get the girl based on your financial status (not speaking gold diggers). Instead, these guys are being taught to be the hunter/fisherman with various techniques that help correct their flaws when it comes to meeting women.

What are your thoughts (for those who've seen the show) in connection with the DJ Bible?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yah money doesn't equal game. But...nobody is making a show called hundredaire matchmatcher and making a living hooking up poor guys. Money will make them come to you and even try to over look your faults. Golddiggers know the score. Now imagine how many rich men with game these chics have been pumped and dumped by. They want someone who is rich and not 100% in their game, and they want someone who is molded into looking like an alpha but being controlled like a beta. I saw one episode with some rich resturant guy, the chics didn't like him because he gave off a player vibe and they wanted him to tone that down and not be so damn playerrific. This show is all about introducing a well heeled wallet to a hot chic.
 

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I think it is a pretty good show.

And I hated the host at first, but she is growing on me, since she calls out everyone - guys, girls, etc.


She pushed the real connection and dating someone who will compliment you better, and THAT IS HER JOB. so there is no reason to get mad at her for saying that this 21 year old is not going to match better with a 50 yo guy than this 35 year old woman.
 

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first of all the show is playing to a demographic... guys like you.

they activity go out and try to find the stupidest (imho) millionaires they can find to prove first of all, that you have more game then these guys and "if you took away all the money there really isn't anything" playing to the silver spoon mantra.

the avg millionaire is not represented by this TV Show.

And you will never become a millionaire wasting your time watching **** like that. go do something
 

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backbreaker said:
first of all the show is playing to a demographic... guys like you.

they activity go out and try to find the stupidest (imho) millionaires they can find to prove first of all, that you have more game then these guys and "if you took away all the money there really isn't anything" playing to the silver spoon mantra.

the avg millionaire is not represented by this TV Show.

And you will never become a millionaire wasting your time watching **** like that. go do something

I'm sorry, I must have missed the part where I was enjoying things I do, and you had 5725 posts.


There are plenty of millionaires of all kinds, because GUESS WHAT, plenty of people become one, of all sorts of different varieties.

There is no average millionaire...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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backbreaker said:
first of all the show is playing to a demographic... guys like you.

they activity go out and try to find the stupidest (imho) millionaires they can find to prove first of all, that you have more game then these guys and "if you took away all the money there really isn't anything" playing to the silver spoon mantra.

the avg millionaire is not represented by this TV Show.

And you will never become a millionaire wasting your time watching **** like that. go do something
I concur. This show is no better the "The Bachelor" which is in the top five for worst shows on television ever. Really aside from the science and history channels on television, it holds absolutely no educational value. Even the those two mediums tell you flat out that their views are opinions and you should do your own research and form your own opinions. This type of program should be considered at the entertainment value at best. Anything else is foolish. Thinking about the benefits of watching television in itself is an oxymoron in itself.
 

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Don't believe everything you see on TV. Millionaires don't need matchmakers. And if a woman is attracted to a man because of his wealth and status it doesn't make her a gold digger. It's just natural.
 

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I must admit I've been sucked into the show & watch it occasionally. I saw an episode where a young (27 year old) millionaire said he was terrified he was going to get hooked up with a gold-digger. Patty reasured him that she made each and every girl sign a $10,000 dollar "anti-gold-digger" clause before they even get invited to one of her mixers.

I think the millionaires are a faily good cross section of the male population. You got some dweeby guys, arrogant players and good solid men as well. It's the FEMALE millionaires that make me laugh...who do these beyoches think they are????
 

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About a year ago, I did watch "Millionaire Matchmaker" and then "The real Housewives of Atlanta".

Soon after this, I requested that my cable service be terminated, and replaced with H.S. Internet.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Amazing said:
I'm sorry, I must have missed the part where I was enjoying things I do, and you had 5725 posts.


There are plenty of millionaires of all kinds, because GUESS WHAT, plenty of people become one, of all sorts of different varieties.

There is no average millionaire...
Just ignore backbreaker, man. Like the television shows that you want to like, and don't worry that they're a clever ploy to suck you into "The Matrix".

Although I admit, I laughed out loud when backbreaker insinuated he is a millionaire. Isn't he the same guy who told us a while back that he travels the world breeding horses or some insane sh!t like that? Then we he got outed as being full of it, he disappeared for two years and returned with his tail between his legs.

Pretty sure that was him. :rolleyes:
 
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