"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Milli Vanilli story and the music artists of today.

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After watching and reading about this story.....Im just in a distraught mood right now.

My friend who happens to be a local musician himself told me most musicians use backing tracks and sound masking or some crap like that....it covers up for the artists mistakes during the performance.

I like the idea of musicians having a clean performance...not a rigged one....

are most artists in the music industry like this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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No, they are concentrated in the mainstream popular music industry. Not so much in music outside the mainstream like Jazz, Alternative, Metal, Punk, Prog rock, Goth, et cetera.

If you listen to music long enough, you realise that there are businesses like Disney who push child TV stars with teen appeal to branch out into the music business, like Britney Spears, Selena Gomez, Christina Aquilera, Justin Timberlake, et cetera. In fact most boybands are owned by producers who 'assemble' bands in which virtually nobody plays an instrument (this is especially common in Kpop), so anytime you see some cute boys / girls dancing and singing but no musicians in sight (*****cat Dolls, Fifth Harmony, Sugababes, Spice Girls, to name a few) you can be sure that their music is heavily produced.
This isn't exactly 'new', Berry Gordy built Motown on producing 'girl groups'. Check out 'The Wrecking Crew' and you'll realise that the same group of studio musicians play on the records of a lot of 'bands'. Another thing is that producers main interest is in making money, so when something starts to 'trend', they immediately hop on the gravy train. Check out 'the Monkees' a produced band that was an American producer's version of the Beatles.

In short, stay outside the mainstream, where most of the money is made, and you'll find that most musicians make music for the music, not the money.
But I still happen to enjoy some of the music of the older hardrock bands in the 70s like The Rolling Stones, Led Zeppelin, Bad Company and Lynyrd Skynyrd....are those bands legit and don't fake their concerts?
 

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Taylor Swift's story is that her rich daddy decided when she was very young that she was going to be famous. He bought her a tour bus from Cher at one point and also bought a stake in a record company to bribe them to make her first album. She can't sing or dance, and isn't even very attractive, but she's a billionaire, because she had rich parents.
 

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Taylor Swift's story is that her rich daddy decided when she was very young that she was going to be famous. He bought her a tour bus from Cher at one point and also bought a stake in a record company to bribe them to make her first album. She can't sing or dance, and isn't even very attractive, but she's a billionaire, because she had rich parents.
Ive only heard one song from her throughout my entirety of my vacation here in The Philippines and thats a train cover- “ Drops of Jupiter’ off a concert in 2011.


Whenever Im in America and Im out driving and listening to the radio…not a day go by that I don’t hear from her.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wait until you hear about the Beatles and Tavistock, OP. Paul and John were both replaced.
 
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Metallica doesn't fake it at a concert. If they are too drunk or high, you'll hear it and it will be ok and everyone will live through it. If they offer tickets for a make up show, they will play their hearts out.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you have the like the artist to like the song? Or ‘ man, that’s a really good song! Im gonna enjoy it despite not liking this piece of crap.’ Lol


Personally I can enjoy it without not liking the artist.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Milli Vanilli got so much backlash because it wasn’t them actually singing. The original singers were some random artists. Many cases of artists lip syncing, but at least it is their own voice prerecorded. This banana incident is hilarious.


 

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Sure, be obtuse. All three don't play instruments. Their singing voice is supposed to be their instrument. And they're incomparable:
Tom Jones can really sing. And I'm pretty sure you can see a band playing behind him.
Janet Jackson needs autotune and a sh*tload of dancers to distract you from her 'singing'.
Paula Abdul is a dancer and choreographer, not a singer. Like Janet > autotune and dancers and probably a backing tape as well.


Please come back when you have a better taste in music than Milli Vanilli and their ilk. You're embarrassing yourself revealing that you saw Paula Abdul 'live'. Even confessing to a RuPaul Drag Show attendance would be less shameful.
Whatever you say dude.
 
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