"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Milk: good or bad
- Thread starter Matt Rogers
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Soma
Banned
Spike_the_Dragon
Senior Don Juan
Anyways, I think the stuff might have actually helped me with bulking up. But seeing as how it helps to prevent cancer and supposedly prevents baldness, I'd much rather drink soy than swallow cow juice any day of the week.
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Heizen
Senior Don Juan
Basicly, it just said that having a high calcium intake and potein intake will cause detrimental effects. This doesnt mean just for milk!
If having a high calcium and potein intake is all it takes to have bad effects, ANYONE taking in as much protein as body builders isnt safe. It has nothing to do with JUST milk.
In the article it stated that 50G of protein a day compared to 91G for an american meant they didnt have any bad effects like us Americans. I take in well over 175G of protein, and as part of my diet, I eat greens. That puts me in that 'risk area' regardless of whether I drink milk or not.
Your article said nothing about the cow hormones in milk, what is exactly in the milk. All it said was that a high protein and calcium intake was a bad thing. The fact that we drink milk is mearly a coincidence.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Soma
Banned
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
Ummm.... i dont think so bud.
Parents who want to reduce saturated fat and animal proteins in the family diet have understandable concerns. They've read that both may increase the risk of heart disease and certain cancers but worry about calcium deficiencies if milk is discontinued
The problem with milk and other dairy products is that they are not only rich in calcium but they are also high in protein, which has been shown to create calcium loss through the urinary tract.
And as for drinking milk to help in being "ripped".... ..intriguing
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Spike_the_Dragon
Senior Don Juan
Vanilla is good, but I don't much care for the chocolate soy milk. I've tried alot of brands, and 'Silk' soy milk is the best so far that I have tasted.
I've been thinking about giving up red meat as well... possibly even going on the alkaline diet by Dr. Robert Young, it sounds pretty interesting.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
Yeah, and always, they stop drinking milk after infancy.
Go to notmilk.com. There's a lot of interesting literature studies posted there. Although obviously the site does have an agenda. Then again, the whole "milk is good for you" myth is perpetrated by the milk industry, and you can bet your ass they have an agenda as well.
There are numerous reasons why you should not drink milk. Not drinking it can improve your digestion. Studies have shown that drinking milk produces a buildup of puss in your body. The hormones in milk has been shown to produce acne. Just go to notmilk.com....lots of interesting stuff there.
And as has been said, milk isn't nearly the vital source of calcium as it's made out to be. There are plenty of better sources of calcium than milk.
I stopped drinking milk about a year ago, and almost immediately my digestion was much better, I didn't have so many runs to the bathroom, and my acne cleared up. I generally felt better. And wuddaya know, all because I stopped drinking something that nature designed us to stop drinking after a very young age. Oh wait, nature didn't intend for us to drink the milk of other species anyways.
And yeah, if you're a guy and care about the build of your body, stay away from soy.
Isnt it funny, how people dont want to face reality on certain issues that all the vital info is staring them in the eyes, but just because they are fed all this nonsense from people in "marketing".. they believe it. It amazing no end.
I am in the same boat as you... stopped drinking milk about a year ago also, i "may" have a glass once a week, just a small onw.. reason being.. i love milo!! haha...
Thanks for you input on the topic Scrum..
As you can see, no1 has replied to your post yet.. maybe now, we can stop hitting our heads against a wall... though you would probably get better listening skills out of a brick, than most of these people "defending" milk... its amazing how defensive people get... no1 was telling them not to drink it.. only bringing forward the information that we are not supposed to know...