"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Anyone here in the military or plan to join? I been at Fort Jackson, SC since January 3rd for Basic Combat Training and AIT (Advanced Individual Training) for my job in the Army which is 56M Chaplain Assistant. I been here back in San Antonio for a little more than a week and I will be here till I report to my duty station in Vilseck, Germany :) on May 30.

Before I left for training I was at this site and it really helped me. also, if any of you got any questions about Basic Training feel free to AIM me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Actually I'm joining the military too. I think i'm joining the Navy, but if that doesn't work out, i'll be joining the army.

btw, what did you score on your asvab? and how long is army's bootcamp? is bootcamp the same as basic training? How long was your job training?
 
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2 year compulsory military service, starting July 8th.
 
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selfmademob said:
Anyone here in the military or plan to join? I been at Fort Jackson, SC since January 3rd for Basic Combat Training and AIT (Advanced Individual Training) for my job in the Army which is 56M Chaplain Assistant. I been here back in San Antonio for a little more than a week and I will be here till I report to my duty station in Vilseck, Germany :) on May 30.

Before I left for training I was at this site and it really helped me. also, if any of you got any questions about Basic Training feel free to AIM me.
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I wish I joined the reserves when I got out of Community College or highschool. I am not sure if I could handle the mental stress of bootcamp though. I know one is not supposed to take the stuff they say to you personal, but I am neurotic and oversensitive so it could of caused a problem. Did you like bootcamp?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Who were your drill seargents at Relaxin Jackson?
 
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