"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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selfmademob

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Anyone here in the military or plan to join? I been at Fort Jackson, SC since January 3rd for Basic Combat Training and AIT (Advanced Individual Training) for my job in the Army which is 56M Chaplain Assistant. I been here back in San Antonio for a little more than a week and I will be here till I report to my duty station in Vilseck, Germany :) on May 30.

Before I left for training I was at this site and it really helped me. also, if any of you got any questions about Basic Training feel free to AIM me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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don juan jr

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Actually I'm joining the military too. I think i'm joining the Navy, but if that doesn't work out, i'll be joining the army.

btw, what did you score on your asvab? and how long is army's bootcamp? is bootcamp the same as basic training? How long was your job training?
 

MrS

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2 year compulsory military service, starting July 8th.
 

mahon83050

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selfmademob said:
Anyone here in the military or plan to join? I been at Fort Jackson, SC since January 3rd for Basic Combat Training and AIT (Advanced Individual Training) for my job in the Army which is 56M Chaplain Assistant. I been here back in San Antonio for a little more than a week and I will be here till I report to my duty station in Vilseck, Germany :) on May 30.

Before I left for training I was at this site and it really helped me. also, if any of you got any questions about Basic Training feel free to AIM me.
I wish I joined the reserves when I got out of Community College or highschool. I am not sure if I could handle the mental stress of bootcamp though. I know one is not supposed to take the stuff they say to you personal, but I am neurotic and oversensitive so it could of caused a problem. Did you like bootcamp?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Who were your drill seargents at Relaxin Jackson?
 
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