Married Buried
Master Don Juan
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That's good babe he knows you trust him that's more he can cheat.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I trust him. Nobody can break that even if they tried. But it's fine, I get it. Nobody believes in anything real anymore. And please do not call me babe
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
On this forum, that's called getting the gift of missing him. The experienced guys here know it works and do it on the women they're dating. I'm no different. I'll have no problem cancelling a date with my GF knowing that she's going to be thinking about me all day. And that's where a guy needs to be; stuck on his GF's mind.On the other hand, yes, I'm the girl that sleeps with his hoodie, waits for my phone to ring and when it does and it's him it completely makes my day. That first kiss you get when they get home, first touch, looking into their eyes, those moments make the time apart you 2 had not feel so ****ty anymore. You know what you were fighting for and **** it's so worth it!
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.