"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Military guys and relationships

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Married Buried

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I trust him. Nobody can break that even if they tried. But it's fine, I get it. Nobody believes in anything real anymore. And please do not call me babe

Britani I am in VA, PM me your #. I am a very nice guy and look like Brad Pitt. We can be text buddies.
 

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You guys are ridiculous. But I'm just glad I'm not with you bc obviously you know all about those bitches in Hong Kong
 

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I have been in the military.........rule of thumb:
Do not date women in the military........fvck them but no LTR.
Outside of the military ; just STR.

Guys who get married while in the military are just the stupidest people in the world.
 

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Wow. I didn't realize so many douche bags were in the military. And guys ***** about cheating wives and girlfriends but obviously the guys are worse. Not all. Just like women. So the guys who really don't give a **** about it shouldn't complain
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Desdinova

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On the other hand, yes, I'm the girl that sleeps with his hoodie, waits for my phone to ring and when it does and it's him it completely makes my day. That first kiss you get when they get home, first touch, looking into their eyes, those moments make the time apart you 2 had not feel so ****ty anymore. You know what you were fighting for and **** it's so worth it!
On this forum, that's called getting the gift of missing him. The experienced guys here know it works and do it on the women they're dating. I'm no different. I'll have no problem cancelling a date with my GF knowing that she's going to be thinking about me all day. And that's where a guy needs to be; stuck on his GF's mind.

...and I'll bet his hoodie smells like him, doesn't it? :D
 

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27 and active. Refusing to get married and/or LTR with someone else. But I'm a dying breed within ranks.
 

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Uh oh. I wonder what that was about.
 

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Who wouldn't? Some of her songs are fun and catchy and her music videos (well, the two I've watched) have red pill-homages in them for those who are aware.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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