Married Buried
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That's good babe he knows you trust him that's more he can cheat.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Military guys and relationships
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Married Buried
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Britani I am in VA, PM me your #. I am a very nice guy and look like Brad Pitt. We can be text buddies.
britani
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You guys are ridiculous. But I'm just glad I'm not with you bc obviously you know all about those bitches in Hong Kong
YawataNoKami
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I have been in the military.........rule of thumb:
Do not date women in the military........fvck them but no LTR.
Outside of the military ; just STR.
Guys who get married while in the military are just the stupidest people in the world.
Do not date women in the military........fvck them but no LTR.
Outside of the military ; just STR.
Guys who get married while in the military are just the stupidest people in the world.
britani
Don Juan
Wow. I didn't realize so many douche bags were in the military. And guys ***** about cheating wives and girlfriends but obviously the guys are worse. Not all. Just like women. So the guys who really don't give a **** about it shouldn't complain
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Desdinova
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On this forum, that's called getting the gift of missing him. The experienced guys here know it works and do it on the women they're dating. I'm no different. I'll have no problem cancelling a date with my GF knowing that she's going to be thinking about me all day. And that's where a guy needs to be; stuck on his GF's mind.
...and I'll bet his hoodie smells like him, doesn't it?
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
Uh oh. I wonder what that was about.
britani
Don Juan
So you like Katy perry? Lol
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
Who wouldn't? Some of her songs are fun and catchy and her music videos (well, the two I've watched) have red pill-homages in them for those who are aware.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.