"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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jeffthechef

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my friend and i were having a debate as we were at the park over whether or not he should consider trying to get some action with this lady..

she's 30, single, and i would even say a 9...she's a friend of his mom's and they've known each other since he was small

i was saying it would be strange and there was little chance he would know how to game her

he ****ily responded...easy

i don't know if a dj would tell him to do it or not..what do you think
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MrS

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I'd hit it.
 

SinJester

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He would come out of the bedroom a man ;)
 

jeffthechef

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2.0 said:
I'd advise against it. What if she told his mom? Awkward....
well of course she wouldn't...if your mom did your friend...would she really want to tell his mom? cause then everyone would know...
i told him that the biggest problem would be he might get an std...cause she's probably done it before or pregnancy
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DarkShade

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Hit it with the force of a meteor. No need to make up excuses for not going for it if you both want it.
 

2.0

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jeffthechef said:
well of course she wouldn't...if your mom did your friend...would she really want to tell his mom? cause then everyone would know...
i told him that the biggest problem would be he might get an std...cause she's probably done it before or pregnancy
I mean, she might turn him down, then tell his mom that he'd asked her... of course I don't know the woman but I'd be super cautious.
 

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MILF - M = Cougar. But being that he is in high school plays a huge role. It's odd for a college student to think about getting with a high schooler let alone a 30 year old woman, who by the way, knows what she wants (not an inexperienced high schooler).
 
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