"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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jeffthechef

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my friend and i were having a debate as we were at the park over whether or not he should consider trying to get some action with this lady..

she's 30, single, and i would even say a 9...she's a friend of his mom's and they've known each other since he was small

i was saying it would be strange and there was little chance he would know how to game her

he ****ily responded...easy

i don't know if a dj would tell him to do it or not..what do you think
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MrS

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I'd hit it.
 

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He would come out of the bedroom a man ;)
 

jeffthechef

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2.0 said:
I'd advise against it. What if she told his mom? Awkward....
well of course she wouldn't...if your mom did your friend...would she really want to tell his mom? cause then everyone would know...
i told him that the biggest problem would be he might get an std...cause she's probably done it before or pregnancy
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hit it with the force of a meteor. No need to make up excuses for not going for it if you both want it.
 

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jeffthechef said:
well of course she wouldn't...if your mom did your friend...would she really want to tell his mom? cause then everyone would know...
i told him that the biggest problem would be he might get an std...cause she's probably done it before or pregnancy
I mean, she might turn him down, then tell his mom that he'd asked her... of course I don't know the woman but I'd be super cautious.
 

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MILF - M = Cougar. But being that he is in high school plays a huge role. It's odd for a college student to think about getting with a high schooler let alone a 30 year old woman, who by the way, knows what she wants (not an inexperienced high schooler).
 
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