MILF keeps texting. What to do?

[custardpie]

So I've got a date set up with a tight bodied, little 38yr old woman off POF for this friday night. Only problem is she keeps texting me every day. I know the rule no texting only for meet ups no chit chat but this is unavoidable.

I'm guessing it means she has high IL but I'm worried through her incessant texting she will be bored before our date has a chance of happening. I can't just ignore her or she'll get pissed off and probably cancel anyway so how to go about this?

 

[kronreiff]

You've never met her! There should be only ONE text from you now, and that would be to confirm the time and date. She's already on/in your mind and you know nothing about her. Not good. You cannot judge IL with texting, it can only be done in person. Trek carefully with a texting freak and don't join the charade. Leave that for the AFC's, beta's, orbiters and her male/female girlfriends.

 

[RangerMIke]

Thank her for her text... tell her you are busy... and that you are looking forward to seeing her on your date.

 

[custardpie]

It's always her that initiates the texting, not me. I try and give as short answers as possible without asking her questions, just statements really.
I will take your advice and tell her I'm busy next time even if I'm not.

 

[custardpie]

Another one today - "Morning x"

I get these every day, sometimes it's "Evening x" lol

 

[kronreiff]

Ignore, spin plates and stay busy.

 

[CMNILS87]

Rearrange your date night. Tell her you have to Problems with Friday and can meet on Tuesday night instead of Friday. You'll really check her interest level and see if she's DTF. Id rather know now in a day rather than get 4 more good morning texts and ignore them

 

[Lozboss]

Don't rearrange. She has high IL. As long as she's initiating then just role with it

 

[custardpie]

Rearrange your date night. Tell her you have to Problems with Friday and can meet on Tuesday night instead of Friday. You'll really check her interest level and see if she's DTF. Id rather know now in a day rather than get 4 more good morning texts and ignore them

Can't arrange anytime sooner as she has a daughter to look after and she'll be going to her dads this friday. I know what you're saying and I agree, I always try to avoid setting up dates more than 3 days ahead as it gives her chance to meet someone else/change her mind in the meantime.

 

[sodbuster]

I had one blowing up my phone, would be "upset" if she couldn't get 50 texts a damn day out of me. I told her I have to work.... guess what? We NEVER f@cked..... She was trying to get me all invested, but she wasn't.... sometimes women love to talk,,,,, doesn't means she's all that hot for you. UNTIL you are both naked....

 

[custardpie]

Well who would have thought, b1tch FLAKED on me.

She had a tooth out the other day and I spoke for about 10 mins with her yesterday on the phone she seemed fine. She said she would ring me back in the evening as the call cut off from bad reception. She was laughing and seemed ok on the phone, asking me questions and everything. I know when I'm bad on the phone and this wasn't one of those times, I was ****y/funny teased her that she should start brushing her teeth lol

So then this morning I get a txt saying she's got an abscess and 'looks like elephant man' whatever the fvck that means and has to cancel our date. Said she was 'really sorry' twice lol whatever. I didn't mention arranging another time I just said 'ok, hope you feel better soon'. No reply.

Not sure if she had another better option swoop in last minute or she just didn't like something about me on the phone...and there is the slight possibility she's telling the truth but who cares. She has dropped to the bottom of my list of priorities now.

B1tches wasting my time is what p1sses me off the most. Do these girls just do this for kicks or what. This is getting tiresome...

 

[LiveFreeX]

hmmm I would say the Universe has done you a serious favor. A single mother AND an american woman to boot? That violates all the principles of learning game in the first place. How low are you on the totem pole when you are begging for sloppy seconds that a baby has emerged from!? Jesus man, go to Asia or south america and get yourself a fresh one but please do not disgrace yourself like that again.

 

[custardpie]

Not American. English.

 

[sodbuster]

Not any real difference in western women. They are only small degrees of differences in feminism..... Almost all are warped...