"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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mild case of ONEITIS- help!

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jdr120

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Hey guys,

I was dating this girl for about 6 weeks. For some reason do to infatuation, I slipped and spent WAY too much time with her in the first weeks (and led her on to believe I wanted a LTR). Once I came to my senses, I ended it with her... Anyway, I had been going through a bit of ONEITIS with her, and I saw her at work this weekend. It was the first time we talked since the breakup(about 2 weeks).. So I mentioned that we should hang out this week, and I called her.. She didn't answer, and I didnt' leave a msg... With regards to my AFC slip of behaviour, I'm not going to call her again only because I'm not going to expose her to my indecisiveness. Does anyone have any examples on getting over oneits (I've never had it before), and NEXTING a girl? So far have been keeping busy with my hobbies, and chattin up other women, but for some damn reason she keeps popping into my head! Your suggestions are much appreciated...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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silverwex

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Hey man,

Read my guide: The ULTIMATE Guide to Beating?Avoiding Oneitis.

Its in the tips section.
 
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Pimp-sicle

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When you NEXT a girl, you shouldn't go back to her, no matter how much you want to.



PIMP
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJ_Dork

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Well don't be that mean. If you next a girl she can still be useful in other methods besides relationship. Just don't get hung up on her.
 
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