Dante420
Master Don Juan
That would have been handled very easily and would have either resulted in her redeeming herself of her finding herself dropped.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
midway through sex she tells me to stop =S
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
dj ben2
Senior Don Juan
lol you completely blah blah blahd out the part that explains my friend brought up that point and i actually thought it was a testRogue said:
Accension
Senior Don Juan
There's no possible way.
If I told you the 'right answer', you'd turn it into a wrong answer from lack of experience.
Of course, this is in no way helpful but eventually you'll understand.
If I told you the 'right answer', you'd turn it into a wrong answer from lack of experience.
Of course, this is in no way helpful but eventually you'll understand.
My exclamation point still stands. You stated he brought up a "good" point. You need to realize he had no point whatsoever. Women have no sense of morality when it comes to sexuality. They wear masks based upon the expectations of their roles in life but carnal sexuality knows no bounds.dj ben2 said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
I have been saying the same damn thing too. None of my friends understood that until I had a conversation with a girl in front of them like that.bukowski_merit said:
My best friend thinks that he is the greatest thing in the world because he can finger/do oral sex really good.
Then I talk to the girl that he is with and she tells me how bad the actual act of sex was. I merely just laugh it off.
If I really don't like the guy, then I will just go up to him later and say "Dude, I just talked to [girl] and she said that you were the best that she ever had. What's your secret?"
It's a back handed compliment because they take it as a compliment, but really it is just a complimented insult (male neg hit perhaps?) because I can withdraw the compliment and insult him bad, if he EVER pisses me off enough.
Like a high five, with the pimp slap followed right behind on the withdraw
- comic_relief
Kevin Feng
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That’s really weird, for a chick to stop during mid session. Don’t take this offensively, but my hunch is that she probably just didn’t think you were that good (logically).
I mean for me personally, I’ve stopped once before, and it’s because the girl’s B/O was horrific when she sweated and she was a complete starfish, total turn off.
I highly doubt it was her moral high road that made her stop, when you’re engaging in such a primal deeply rooted interaction, and you’re really into it, I mean jeez. Plus, you’re already inside of her, the band-aid’s already been ripped off.
Or maybe she realized she had an STD or something and didn’t want to give it to you. Who knows, I’d be curious as to what her thought process is though.
I mean for me personally, I’ve stopped once before, and it’s because the girl’s B/O was horrific when she sweated and she was a complete starfish, total turn off.
I highly doubt it was her moral high road that made her stop, when you’re engaging in such a primal deeply rooted interaction, and you’re really into it, I mean jeez. Plus, you’re already inside of her, the band-aid’s already been ripped off.
Or maybe she realized she had an STD or something and didn’t want to give it to you. Who knows, I’d be curious as to what her thought process is though.