"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Michael Sartain
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Gamisch
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Nice one. He should only talk a little slower.
FlexpertHamilton
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His girl blatantly disrepected him on the Whatever podcast recently as well and all he did was give her a "oh bvtch please" look and said nothing, he looked to be in shock because it was definitely way over the top.
I'm distrustful of many of these manosphere guys. The only ones I like are Corey Wayne and Andrew Tate because they actually seem sincere. I haven't really seen Corey Wayne on podcasts though.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
SW15
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Sartain is most known for his "female friendship" angle, which I don't think makes a lot of sense for a lot of men. I don't have any platonic female friends. I have made it to middle age without female friends. I think it has been good that I've stayed out of the friend zone with a lot of women. At the same time, my lack of female friends has forced me into being a cold approacher because I don't receive social circle introductions.
Since moving to my current city, none of my male friends' girlfriends/wives have ever introduced me to a woman that has resulted in a first date. I'm not on bad terms with any of them but it's always been interesting to me that none of them have ever lifted a finger to attempt to get me a first date. None of them ever talked me up as a viable boyfriend to anyone they knew.
FlexpertHamilton
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They're not true friends, even though he seems to pretend they are. He only befriends extremely attractive model types.
I think he did claim they'd do things male friends would do such as rides from the airport, but I kind of doubt that's true for most of them. What he really intends is getting used to being around highly attractive women and not being thirsty which I do think has value.
The social proof element is the biggest benefit though as well as the fact that once women who is confident but DOESN'T have thirst, sex may naturally come at some point since it'll be very low pressure.
I did try having a female "friend" last year, after already fvcking her, but stopped trying to and told her I just wanted to be friends...lo and behold it didn't work out and she got jealous and complained I wasn't intimate enough. It just seems pointless. We did have a nice shroom trip together at least.
Why put up with all their shvt and liabilities?
Rollo can be happy that he has Michael on his side. Rollo can not talk. Listening to him hurts.
Millard Fillmore
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Most of these so called experts are. A lot of them seem like incels with podcasts and books. These guys at least look somewhat normal but some of them are so ugly and at times fat that I'm sure they are incapable of what they preach.