"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Michael Jackson has passed away.

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My condolences, just heard this on the news here in NY at 6:21 pm, June 25th, 2009.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Wow both Farrah Fawcett and Michael Jackson passed on the same day. With Ed McMahon dieing a few days ago it's been an odd week.
 

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Stress related heart attack I'm guessing.

Its amazing he made it to 50 with all the stress he's been under his entire life.

He was great in the 80's.

If he wouldn't of went nuts bleached his skin, had the pedo allegations against him and became a general weirdo he could have become greater than Elvis as a musical icon.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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RIP MJ. This is the last thing I though I'd hear about anytime soon. The dude is only 50. Though I take it his life was tremendously stressful. It's like the end of an era in ways.

I'm sure in coming years, all kinds of people are going to come out and reveal stories about how strange he was.
 

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not a fan of him or his music, but condolences to him and his family.

comic_relief
 

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Dear Michael:

If only I could have spent one more endless night in your arms.

Yours Truly,

The Children
 

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Wiesman44 said:
Dear Michael:

If only I could have spent one more endless night in your arms.

Yours Truly,

The Children
For fvcks sake man! Show some respect!!!

One day you will die too...would you like it if people laughed at your wake?!?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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maybe wiesman's just a really positive guy and would appreciate it if ppl were merry at his wake, ken. It doesn't matter who's wrong or right, just Beat It.
 

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no shock here.. I was already shocked that farrah fawcett died.. wasnt she supposed to marry some dude? that was on the news a few days ago.. anyways numb now.. RIP Michael Jackson RIP Farrah Fawcett
 

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OMG!!!! I just stumbled upon this as I was checking my email! (Came here to post it, but found this thread beat me to it)!

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/31552029?gt1=43001

WOW! I am shocked... despite all of the weird accusations and whatnot, I was a big fan, starting from an early age. This is going to take some digesting. :cry:

When Prince dies... I will officially lose my mind! :nervous:
 

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piranha45 said:
I dunno about that farrah fawcett, maybe its something you had to live through to understand, but im not impressed with this:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Farrah_Fawcett_iconic_pinup_1976.jpg
im not saying i wouldnt hit that, but jesus there were way better shots of better women than that, back then.
I'm glad to know that you wouldn't kick a television superstar out of bed, I'm sure it's something you confront on a regular basis, whether to "hit" a celbrity or not. But I am relieved that you WOULD hit one of the most famous sex symbols of all time, if you absolutely had to.

Say hi to Megan Fox for me, stud. (This is of course assuming that Megan Fox meets your criteria of girls you would consider hitting. She's sort of the "it girl" right now.)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJDamage said:
He was a great performer in the 80's but he was also a messed up and disturbed human being.
Yeah, he was defintely a weird dude. The mask, glove, and the intense plastic surgery(which is actually debateable, supposedly it was rumored that he had some kind of disease that turns the skin white, that is prone to black people) was bit strange, but as far as the child molestation accusations, I can't say he did or didn't do it. I wasn't there, so I'm not going to point fingers. Anyhow, even though I never got into his music(except "Black or White", very catchy tune), I must say he was an incredible artist with a tremendous amount of talent. Awesome stage presence. And don't forget guys, regardless of his weird tendencies and the plastic surgery that made him look scary, the guy did pull Lisa-Marie Presley, a fine piece of ass. More proof that hot women will over-look a lot of things with men. Yeah, the guy was classified as "King of Pop", but she could've latched onto another guy almost equally as popular or wealthy, who on top of it was normal.
 

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What's sad about this is most of the media are focusing on allegations of his sex life, and not about his talent. Kind of sad how scandelous our culture is, let's face it, he's not famous for being an alleged child molestor, he's famous for being a great singer, dancer, and releasing THE best selling album, of ALL TIME.
 

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The strange thing is, earlier today I was listening to NPR and they were talking about Farah Fawcett dieing and I wondered who would be number three as celebrity deaths always come in three for some odd reason. NEVER expected MJ. Thats just fvcking weird.

However I think when Bowie dies that will be the only celebrity I cry for.
 

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Bowie can't die. He has to release a great album first. Just one more good one. I know he has it in him.
 

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"dude... he made thriller, man.....THRILLER!" I highly doubt there are any of us onhere, who are old enough, who didnt love that album at one time or another. I was in first grade, when that came out. I had a copy. My first tape ever, actually.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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