"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Michael Douglas’ Dating History

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Michael Douglas, 82, put out a memoir.


1971 - Movie: Summertree - slept with costar Brenda Vaccaro for 6 years
1977 - Married 19 year Diandra Luker. He was 32.
1985 - Movie: Romancing the Stone- slept with writer of movie Diana Thomas (while still married)
1985 - Movie: Romancing the Stone - slept with costar of movie Kathleen Turner (while still married)
1991 - Movie: Basic Instinct - slept with costar Jeanne Tripplehorn. Fake slept with costar Sharon Stone 3 times (while still married)
1998 - Saw Catherine Zeta Jones in movie and said "I want to get that woman pregnant",

Catherine said "OK, you have to call the FIVE other women you are sleeping with and tell them its over" He said "OK" and did.

Forget the gym, Sosuave should tell men "Have great hair and be a movie star, you will get ANY girl you want."

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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1977 - Married 19 year Diandra Luker. He was 32.
1985 - Movie: Romancing the Stone- slept with writer of movie Diana Thomas (while still married)
1985 - Movie: Romancing the Stone - slept with costar of movie Kathleen Turner (while still married)
1991 - Movie: Basic Instinct - slept with costar Jeanne Tripplehorn. Fake slept with costar Sharon Stone 3 times (while still married)
This is a bad thing for a man.
If you cannot commit to a woman, means, you've no self respect, nor respect for others, nor control over your own desire.

A man should be someone who is solid in control of his own desires.
 

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Famous actors with great hair should never commit to one woman if they cant keep it in their pants because they are gonna have it thrown at them every single day.
 

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Didn’t MD come out saying he was a s@x addict at some point when he was with CZJ? I do recall it was in the news at the time…
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If you cannot commit to a woman, means, you've no self respect, nor respect for others, nor control over your own desire.
If you commit to a woman, means, you have sex on her schedule, nor have sex with other women, nor control over your own finances.
 

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Dude's gotta a ways to go, before he's REMOTELY close to rivaling Robert Evans and Warren Beatty's kill count. In that sense, he's not that much different than the rest of us. Regrettable that MD's "acting" was never as noteworthy as these wild tales he's now regaling us with, in what really appears to be some warped bid at regaining a scintilla of the spotlight he enjoyed during The 20th Century's twilight

We forget today that, prior to Basic Instinct revitalizing his career

-The Streets Of San Francisco had become no less obscure to inhabitants of The 90s than Hanging With Mr. Cooper was and remains, once 2002 rolled around

-Wall Street
had become a punchline/written off as yet another relic of an outmoded era, more quaint than sythwave and graffiti coats

-Black Rain had flopped, despite actually being a nifty flick + A sorely overlooked entry in Ridley Scott's filmography

And that Mikey was widely viewed as a washed up Nepo Baby, who's scheme to capitalize on his status as a scion of Old Hollywood had faltered more pathetically than Gerald Ford's stab at overseeing America did
 
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If you commit to a woman, means, you have sex on her schedule, nor have sex with other women, nor control over your own finances.
Well, if you commit to a woman, you made sure she's a human being that respects you.
What you talk about are manipulative woman that keep men in relationship because they cannot satisfy their needs by themselves.

So by "woman" I might mean a "solid" "good" woman
 

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Famous actors with great hair should never commit to one woman if they cant keep it in their pants because they are gonna have it thrown at them every single day.
Nor should they sleep with sixes, which most of the women on that list were even in their prime.
 
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