"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Michael Douglas’ Dating History

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Michael Douglas, 82, put out a memoir.


1971 - Movie: Summertree - slept with costar Brenda Vaccaro for 6 years
1977 - Married 19 year Diandra Luker. He was 32.
1985 - Movie: Romancing the Stone- slept with writer of movie Diana Thomas (while still married)
1985 - Movie: Romancing the Stone - slept with costar of movie Kathleen Turner (while still married)
1991 - Movie: Basic Instinct - slept with costar Jeanne Tripplehorn. Fake slept with costar Sharon Stone 3 times (while still married)
1998 - Saw Catherine Zeta Jones in movie and said "I want to get that woman pregnant",

Catherine said "OK, you have to call the FIVE other women you are sleeping with and tell them its over" He said "OK" and did.

Forget the gym, Sosuave should tell men "Have great hair and be a movie star, you will get ANY girl you want."

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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1977 - Married 19 year Diandra Luker. He was 32.
1985 - Movie: Romancing the Stone- slept with writer of movie Diana Thomas (while still married)
1985 - Movie: Romancing the Stone - slept with costar of movie Kathleen Turner (while still married)
1991 - Movie: Basic Instinct - slept with costar Jeanne Tripplehorn. Fake slept with costar Sharon Stone 3 times (while still married)
This is a bad thing for a man.
If you cannot commit to a woman, means, you've no self respect, nor respect for others, nor control over your own desire.

A man should be someone who is solid in control of his own desires.
 

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Famous actors with great hair should never commit to one woman if they cant keep it in their pants because they are gonna have it thrown at them every single day.
 

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Didn’t MD come out saying he was a s@x addict at some point when he was with CZJ? I do recall it was in the news at the time…
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you cannot commit to a woman, means, you've no self respect, nor respect for others, nor control over your own desire.
If you commit to a woman, means, you have sex on her schedule, nor have sex with other women, nor control over your own finances.
 

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Dude's gotta a ways to go, before he's REMOTELY close to rivaling Robert Evans and Warren Beatty's kill count. In that sense, he's not that much different than the rest of us. Regrettable that MD's "acting" was never as noteworthy as these wild tales he's now regaling us with, in what really appears to be some warped bid at regaining a scintilla of the spotlight he enjoyed during The 20th Century's twilight

We forget today that, prior to Basic Instinct revitalizing his career

-The Streets Of San Francisco had become no less obscure to inhabitants of The 90s than Hanging With Mr. Cooper was and remains, once 2002 rolled around

-Wall Street
had become a punchline/written off as yet another relic of an outmoded era, more quaint than sythwave and graffiti coats

-Black Rain had flopped, despite actually being a nifty flick + A sorely overlooked entry in Ridley Scott's filmography

And that Mikey was widely viewed as a washed up Nepo Baby, who's scheme to capitalize on his status as a scion of Old Hollywood had faltered more pathetically than Gerald Ford's stab at overseeing America did
 
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If you commit to a woman, means, you have sex on her schedule, nor have sex with other women, nor control over your own finances.
Well, if you commit to a woman, you made sure she's a human being that respects you.
What you talk about are manipulative woman that keep men in relationship because they cannot satisfy their needs by themselves.

So by "woman" I might mean a "solid" "good" woman
 
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