PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
anyone in Miami this weekend of wanna take a trip to Miami this weekend??
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
It is a place with a lot of superficial women, but again like any city depends what you like and where you go. If you go to expensive clubs you know what you will find, if you chill like at the beach and just strike conversation you might meet cool people. Let me know what are you into,, in terms of more laid back bars,, or club dancing scene,, and I might give you some pointers. I live here.I'll be going to Miami Next month (4/20)
any restaurants/clubs spots you recommend for cheap?
I heard the vibe is money and there a lot of gold diggers is that true?
Thanks man, yeah I know it's superficial place but honestly I just need to get the heck away from work and go on a beach.It is a place with a lot of superficial women, but again like any city depends what you like and where you go. If you go to expensive clubs you know what you will find, if you chill like at the beach and just strike conversation you might meet cool people. Let me know what are you into,, in terms of more laid back bars,, or club dancing scene,, and I might give you some pointers. I live here.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Yeah I won't be renting a car tho and there is no way i'm ubering to Ft Lauderdale I have never been to MiamiIts an awesome place as a vacation you have many things to do to relax.. I would recommend las olas in Ft Lauderdale,, in my personal opinion its better than overrated South Beach. South Beach is good if you havent been before but honestly nothing super special about it.
If you a more laid back more like hipster Wynwood has many places you can go to, its like an arts district with many bars and restaurants, I am not much into those places but you can find some cool hangouts there. For a litte more upscale and nice places you can hit the Brickell area.Yeah I won't be renting a car tho and there is no way i'm ubering to Ft Lauderdale I have never been to Miami
actually will be staying in a COndo AIrb&B downtown
any food places you recommend? or Lounges?