PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
anyone in Miami this weekend of wanna take a trip to Miami this weekend??
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Miami
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
I'll be going to Miami Next month (4/20)
any restaurants/clubs spots you recommend for cheap?
I heard the vibe is money and there a lot of gold diggers is that true?
any restaurants/clubs spots you recommend for cheap?
I heard the vibe is money and there a lot of gold diggers is that true?
It is a place with a lot of superficial women, but again like any city depends what you like and where you go. If you go to expensive clubs you know what you will find, if you chill like at the beach and just strike conversation you might meet cool people. Let me know what are you into,, in terms of more laid back bars,, or club dancing scene,, and I might give you some pointers. I live here.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Thanks man, yeah I know it's superficial place but honestly I just need to get the heck away from work and go on a beach.
I prefer Lounges or sports bars
I don't really care for nightclubs anymore I'm in my early 30s. So I prefer a scene that is fun but not rowdy
Its an awesome place as a vacation you have many things to do to relax.. I would recommend las olas in Ft Lauderdale,, in my personal opinion its better than overrated South Beach. South Beach is good if you havent been before but honestly nothing super special about it.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Yeah I won't be renting a car tho and there is no way i'm ubering to Ft Lauderdale I have never been to Miami
actually will be staying in a COndo AIrb&B downtown
any food places you recommend? or Lounges?
If you a more laid back more like hipster Wynwood has many places you can go to, its like an arts district with many bars and restaurants, I am not much into those places but you can find some cool hangouts there. For a litte more upscale and nice places you can hit the Brickell area.
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I promote in the beach hit me up
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Nice place the keys area us okay to but mostly the older crowd