PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
anyone in Miami this weekend of wanna take a trip to Miami this weekend??
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
It is a place with a lot of superficial women, but again like any city depends what you like and where you go. If you go to expensive clubs you know what you will find, if you chill like at the beach and just strike conversation you might meet cool people. Let me know what are you into,, in terms of more laid back bars,, or club dancing scene,, and I might give you some pointers. I live here.I'll be going to Miami Next month (4/20)
any restaurants/clubs spots you recommend for cheap?
I heard the vibe is money and there a lot of gold diggers is that true?
Thanks man, yeah I know it's superficial place but honestly I just need to get the heck away from work and go on a beach.It is a place with a lot of superficial women, but again like any city depends what you like and where you go. If you go to expensive clubs you know what you will find, if you chill like at the beach and just strike conversation you might meet cool people. Let me know what are you into,, in terms of more laid back bars,, or club dancing scene,, and I might give you some pointers. I live here.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yeah I won't be renting a car tho and there is no way i'm ubering to Ft Lauderdale I have never been to MiamiIts an awesome place as a vacation you have many things to do to relax.. I would recommend las olas in Ft Lauderdale,, in my personal opinion its better than overrated South Beach. South Beach is good if you havent been before but honestly nothing super special about it.
If you a more laid back more like hipster Wynwood has many places you can go to, its like an arts district with many bars and restaurants, I am not much into those places but you can find some cool hangouts there. For a litte more upscale and nice places you can hit the Brickell area.Yeah I won't be renting a car tho and there is no way i'm ubering to Ft Lauderdale I have never been to Miami
actually will be staying in a COndo AIrb&B downtown
any food places you recommend? or Lounges?