"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Miami! Attention locals!

teh winneh

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Okay guys, here’s the deal: my dad’s going to Miami on business and I will be travelling there with him for a well-deserved vacation in the sun (I hope). Having been a reader of this forum for a while now, I know that some of you DJs reside in the Miami area, and now is your chance to improve the quality of my stay by sharing your (probably extensive) knowledge.

I’m pretty sure my flight will be arriving on the 30th of October. I will then proceed to spend the next 6 or 7 days in the Miami-Miami Beach area, before heading down to the Florida Keys for the rest of my stay. It’s my first time in the States, but I’ve travelled quite a lot around the Europe. I’m only 18, so I guess that pretty much means no clubbing or lounge-hopping for me. I will, however, try to obtain a 21+ ID before coming, but I’m not really sure if that’s such a good idea anyway? My dad will probably be golfing all the time, so I’ll be spending the days on my own. We have a car, but since it’s the company’s, I’m not allowed to drive it. I’m staying at the Fontainebleau Hilton, which, I understand, is located near all the major attractions of Miami Beach.

There’s the introduction, now let’s hear from you DJs! I’m open to all feeedback, but here are some questions from the top of my head: what (not) to do? what to see? where (not) to go? where (not) to eat? etc. However, don’t let these topics limit your creativity, because I’m interested in all useful (and not that useful) info you can come up with. Also, I’m very interested to hear a general description of the area from a local (I’ve heard it’s really superficial and the chicks are all *****es?) :D

I would, of course, be delighted to get to know cool new people from the other side of the globe. So if any of you dons wants to hang out and talk trash (or whatever:)), I’m all for it. I’ll be there from the 1st of november to the 6th or the 7th, so if you're up to it, send me a PM and we can chat!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Spike_the_Dragon

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Wingman forum.
 

teh winneh

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Well, I guess it belongs to the wingman forum if the mods say so, although I don't quite follow the (il)logic behind their reasoning. ;)
 

Spike_the_Dragon

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The nature of your post is best suited for the wingman forum. It will serve its purpose best there. You will recieve the best social interaction that this site can offer according to the information that you have provided and requested within the confines of the Wingman forum.

The moderator acted in a perfectly logical fashion and moved your post into its proper place on this site. Do not question authority.


Do I make myself clear, Mr. Winneh?




:D :p
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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diablo

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Originally posted by teh winneh
my dad’s going to Miami on business and I will be travelling there with him ... So if any of you dons wants to hang out and talk trash (or whatever:)), I’m all for it. I’ll be there from the 1st of november to the 6th or the 7th, so if you're up to it, send me a PM and we can chat!
A request to meet up with other people from the board to hang out, pick up girls, talk trash, or throw stones at monkeys in the zoo = Wingman Request = Wingman Forum. :) Hope this helps.
 

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There's a Miami Lair...you can join the wingmen of the Miami Lair by getting the local contact by emailing [email protected] and joining Cliff's List, which has a list of local wings in every major city...also, you can ask [email protected] to get the Lair List that is posted at thundercatseductionlair.com.
 

teh winneh

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Originally posted by Pap
There's a Miami Lair...you can join the wingmen of the Miami Lair by getting the local contact by emailing [email protected] and joining Cliff's List, which has a list of local wings in every major city...also, you can ask [email protected] to get the Lair List that is posted at thundercatseductionlair.com.
Thanks Pap, I'll definitely have to check these out. However that link only takes me to this "thundercatseductionlair.com coming soon!" page?

And hey, diablo and spike, it's all good! :D
 
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