"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Miami! Attention locals!

teh winneh

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Okay guys, here’s the deal: my dad’s going to Miami on business and I will be travelling there with him for a well-deserved vacation in the sun (I hope). Having been a reader of this forum for a while now, I know that some of you DJs reside in the Miami area, and now is your chance to improve the quality of my stay by sharing your (probably extensive) knowledge.

I’m pretty sure my flight will be arriving on the 30th of October. I will then proceed to spend the next 6 or 7 days in the Miami-Miami Beach area, before heading down to the Florida Keys for the rest of my stay. It’s my first time in the States, but I’ve travelled quite a lot around the Europe. I’m only 18, so I guess that pretty much means no clubbing or lounge-hopping for me. I will, however, try to obtain a 21+ ID before coming, but I’m not really sure if that’s such a good idea anyway? My dad will probably be golfing all the time, so I’ll be spending the days on my own. We have a car, but since it’s the company’s, I’m not allowed to drive it. I’m staying at the Fontainebleau Hilton, which, I understand, is located near all the major attractions of Miami Beach.

There’s the introduction, now let’s hear from you DJs! I’m open to all feeedback, but here are some questions from the top of my head: what (not) to do? what to see? where (not) to go? where (not) to eat? etc. However, don’t let these topics limit your creativity, because I’m interested in all useful (and not that useful) info you can come up with. Also, I’m very interested to hear a general description of the area from a local (I’ve heard it’s really superficial and the chicks are all *****es?) :D

I would, of course, be delighted to get to know cool new people from the other side of the globe. So if any of you dons wants to hang out and talk trash (or whatever:)), I’m all for it. I’ll be there from the 1st of november to the 6th or the 7th, so if you're up to it, send me a PM and we can chat!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Spike_the_Dragon

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Wingman forum.
 

teh winneh

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Well, I guess it belongs to the wingman forum if the mods say so, although I don't quite follow the (il)logic behind their reasoning. ;)
 

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The nature of your post is best suited for the wingman forum. It will serve its purpose best there. You will recieve the best social interaction that this site can offer according to the information that you have provided and requested within the confines of the Wingman forum.

The moderator acted in a perfectly logical fashion and moved your post into its proper place on this site. Do not question authority.


Do I make myself clear, Mr. Winneh?




:D :p
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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diablo

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Originally posted by teh winneh
my dad’s going to Miami on business and I will be travelling there with him ... So if any of you dons wants to hang out and talk trash (or whatever:)), I’m all for it. I’ll be there from the 1st of november to the 6th or the 7th, so if you're up to it, send me a PM and we can chat!
A request to meet up with other people from the board to hang out, pick up girls, talk trash, or throw stones at monkeys in the zoo = Wingman Request = Wingman Forum. :) Hope this helps.
 

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There's a Miami Lair...you can join the wingmen of the Miami Lair by getting the local contact by emailing [email protected] and joining Cliff's List, which has a list of local wings in every major city...also, you can ask [email protected] to get the Lair List that is posted at thundercatseductionlair.com.
 

teh winneh

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Originally posted by Pap
There's a Miami Lair...you can join the wingmen of the Miami Lair by getting the local contact by emailing [email protected] and joining Cliff's List, which has a list of local wings in every major city...also, you can ask [email protected] to get the Lair List that is posted at thundercatseductionlair.com.
Thanks Pap, I'll definitely have to check these out. However that link only takes me to this "thundercatseductionlair.com coming soon!" page?

And hey, diablo and spike, it's all good! :D
 
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