"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MGTOW is the only way to go

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Lastest video from Wheat Waffles to illustrate how fvcked up everything is:

Are we really at a point where a guy calling himself Wheat Waffles is giving us philosophical musings on the future of dating and the modern relationship?

I think the idea about dating becoming harder needs to be overlaid against life expectancy, for starters. If life has elongated and incomes are the best it’s ever been, the time constraint to settle down has moved with it.

You can’t simply say our grandparents had children at age 21, and ignore that those grandparents were recently back from the Second World War and that chicken pox was an actual thing. Guys like me, rolling into Park Ave steakhouses with women fresh out of college being introduced to me by senior women in the office, (married women, licking the tits if strippers in Vegas) that’s just not a game our grandparents were playing.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MGTOW is an understandable option considering men should stay away from most American women and many women don’t like many men. But it is likely a miserable, cope-burdened existence because few things make a man more angry than being womanless.

In comparison to some boyfriend-girlfriend cases, otherwise known as LTR’s (not all), I believe MGTOW is more respectable.
 

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WW's videos are sensationalist and reinforce the black pill and the give-up mentality. He makes his money by getting viewers and subscribers like you; it behooves him to keep you in your little thought prison with him.

Meanwhile, his data is biased and cherry-picked to get his message across.

 

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WW's videos are sensationalist and reinforce the black pill and the give-up mentality. He makes his money by getting viewers and subscribers like you; it behooves him to keep you in your little thought prison with him.

Meanwhile, his data is biased and cherry-picked to get his message across.

Richard Feynman! Guy took a fvcking dixie cup with ice water and shut up an entire panel of nasa bureaucrats. Absolutely genius
 

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Guys like me, rolling into Park Ave steakhouses with women fresh out of college being introduced to me by senior women in the office, (married women, licking the tits if strippers in Vegas) that’s just not a game our grandparents were playing.
...are part of the 10%.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What does that mean
It means that WW videos are intended to the other 90% of guys who are struggling with women. Of course he acknowledges all throughout his videos that the chads/chadlites have it easy, but at the expense of everyone else.

If you look at it, you are either struggling, or you are part of the 10% who is taking women out of the dating market and making it even more difficult for other guys who are struggling. Do you really disagree with WW?
 

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It means that WW videos are intended to the other 90% of guys who are struggling with women. Of course he acknowledges all throughout his videos that the chads/chadlites have it easy, but at the expense of everyone else.

If you look at it, you are either struggling, or you are part of the 10% who is taking women out of the dating market and making it even more difficult for other guys who are struggling. Do you really disagree with WW?
Yes I really do. His statement about the state of dating 60 years ago was a non starter. The world was completely different. Human nature hasn’t budged in 5,000 years though. Get a good job, or start one; make money or be a good time; the world is built around incentive. Incentivize your woman to want to be with you.
 

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It means that WW videos are intended to the other 90% of guys who are struggling with women. Of course he acknowledges all throughout his videos that the chads/chadlites have it easy, but at the expense of everyone else.

If you look at it, you are either struggling, or you are part of the 10% who is taking women out of the dating market and making it even more difficult for other guys who are struggling. Do you really disagree with WW?
Do you think some (not all) of this 90 percent try to punch above their weight?

For example, do you think some ordinary womanless men (say, 5’s on a 10 scale) aren’t interested in ordinary women?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She will care as much about you as you care about your own self.
You buy the company or many things to do with a woman (ie as per your previous post which you are obviously deflecting from here as I came at you with another angle that nullifies it), but you can't buy her heart.
 

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Neither Cory Booker nor Brett Kavanaugh are incels. I feel confident that Booker has gotten laid since his relationship with Rosario Dawson ended in 2022. Kavanaugh has a wife and likely a fairly typical married man sex life at this point.
Well, Kavanaugh was an Incel, which is why he was always playing AggressiveKinoGame so much. :eek: But yes, he has ascended since then. The thing about him was that he was an athlete of good height, and was certainly nowhere near StBlackOps2Cel-tier in looks, so in an ordinary social schema, he should have been at least Chadlite - even at an all-boys Catholic school (which does it make it more difficult, of course).
 

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Do you think some (not all) of this 90 percent try to punch above their weight?

For example, do you think some ordinary womanless men (say, 5’s on a 10 scale) aren’t interested in ordinary women?
I don't deal in absolutes or black and whites in any arguments so if you ask me if there are "some" of anything, then the answer is always going to be a yes. Does that reflect the vast majority of cases that are enough to cause statistically significant trends if someone is going to study into the numbers and compare them with other years? Then, the answer to that is no.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You buy the company or many things to do with a woman (ie as per your previous post which you are obviously deflecting from here as I came at you with another angle that nullifies it), but you can't buy her heart.
But the idea that PUA professes is that you can game her heart.
 

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Why do you need to talk about prostitution in 90% of your posts?
Who are you talking about? Also threads like MTGOW or Incel themed threads tend to lead towards some mention of that somewhere in the mix as it's taking a meta approach. If it's with other "normal" threads, then that would be a concern.
 
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I think there are a fair number of never-married men who have had at least 90% of their sexual encounters with bought women.
Are you talking about "indirectly" (ie the traditional route, courting, dating, and lying in order to get sex, or actually getting into a mutually agreed/beneficial arrangement, relationship or marriage) or "directly" (ie the escort thing) when you mention 90%?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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