"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MGTOW is the only way to go

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Lastest video from Wheat Waffles to illustrate how fvcked up everything is:

Are we really at a point where a guy calling himself Wheat Waffles is giving us philosophical musings on the future of dating and the modern relationship?

I think the idea about dating becoming harder needs to be overlaid against life expectancy, for starters. If life has elongated and incomes are the best it’s ever been, the time constraint to settle down has moved with it.

You can’t simply say our grandparents had children at age 21, and ignore that those grandparents were recently back from the Second World War and that chicken pox was an actual thing. Guys like me, rolling into Park Ave steakhouses with women fresh out of college being introduced to me by senior women in the office, (married women, licking the tits if strippers in Vegas) that’s just not a game our grandparents were playing.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MGTOW is an understandable option considering men should stay away from most American women and many women don’t like many men. But it is likely a miserable, cope-burdened existence because few things make a man more angry than being womanless.

In comparison to some boyfriend-girlfriend cases, otherwise known as LTR’s (not all), I believe MGTOW is more respectable.
 

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WW's videos are sensationalist and reinforce the black pill and the give-up mentality. He makes his money by getting viewers and subscribers like you; it behooves him to keep you in your little thought prison with him.

Meanwhile, his data is biased and cherry-picked to get his message across.

 

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WW's videos are sensationalist and reinforce the black pill and the give-up mentality. He makes his money by getting viewers and subscribers like you; it behooves him to keep you in your little thought prison with him.

Meanwhile, his data is biased and cherry-picked to get his message across.

Richard Feynman! Guy took a fvcking dixie cup with ice water and shut up an entire panel of nasa bureaucrats. Absolutely genius
 

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Guys like me, rolling into Park Ave steakhouses with women fresh out of college being introduced to me by senior women in the office, (married women, licking the tits if strippers in Vegas) that’s just not a game our grandparents were playing.
...are part of the 10%.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What does that mean
It means that WW videos are intended to the other 90% of guys who are struggling with women. Of course he acknowledges all throughout his videos that the chads/chadlites have it easy, but at the expense of everyone else.

If you look at it, you are either struggling, or you are part of the 10% who is taking women out of the dating market and making it even more difficult for other guys who are struggling. Do you really disagree with WW?
 

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It means that WW videos are intended to the other 90% of guys who are struggling with women. Of course he acknowledges all throughout his videos that the chads/chadlites have it easy, but at the expense of everyone else.

If you look at it, you are either struggling, or you are part of the 10% who is taking women out of the dating market and making it even more difficult for other guys who are struggling. Do you really disagree with WW?
Yes I really do. His statement about the state of dating 60 years ago was a non starter. The world was completely different. Human nature hasn’t budged in 5,000 years though. Get a good job, or start one; make money or be a good time; the world is built around incentive. Incentivize your woman to want to be with you.
 

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It means that WW videos are intended to the other 90% of guys who are struggling with women. Of course he acknowledges all throughout his videos that the chads/chadlites have it easy, but at the expense of everyone else.

If you look at it, you are either struggling, or you are part of the 10% who is taking women out of the dating market and making it even more difficult for other guys who are struggling. Do you really disagree with WW?
Do you think some (not all) of this 90 percent try to punch above their weight?

For example, do you think some ordinary womanless men (say, 5’s on a 10 scale) aren’t interested in ordinary women?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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She will care as much about you as you care about your own self.
You buy the company or many things to do with a woman (ie as per your previous post which you are obviously deflecting from here as I came at you with another angle that nullifies it), but you can't buy her heart.
 

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Neither Cory Booker nor Brett Kavanaugh are incels. I feel confident that Booker has gotten laid since his relationship with Rosario Dawson ended in 2022. Kavanaugh has a wife and likely a fairly typical married man sex life at this point.
Well, Kavanaugh was an Incel, which is why he was always playing AggressiveKinoGame so much. :eek: But yes, he has ascended since then. The thing about him was that he was an athlete of good height, and was certainly nowhere near StBlackOps2Cel-tier in looks, so in an ordinary social schema, he should have been at least Chadlite - even at an all-boys Catholic school (which does it make it more difficult, of course).
 

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Do you think some (not all) of this 90 percent try to punch above their weight?

For example, do you think some ordinary womanless men (say, 5’s on a 10 scale) aren’t interested in ordinary women?
I don't deal in absolutes or black and whites in any arguments so if you ask me if there are "some" of anything, then the answer is always going to be a yes. Does that reflect the vast majority of cases that are enough to cause statistically significant trends if someone is going to study into the numbers and compare them with other years? Then, the answer to that is no.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You buy the company or many things to do with a woman (ie as per your previous post which you are obviously deflecting from here as I came at you with another angle that nullifies it), but you can't buy her heart.
But the idea that PUA professes is that you can game her heart.
 

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Why do you need to talk about prostitution in 90% of your posts?
Who are you talking about? Also threads like MTGOW or Incel themed threads tend to lead towards some mention of that somewhere in the mix as it's taking a meta approach. If it's with other "normal" threads, then that would be a concern.
 
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I think there are a fair number of never-married men who have had at least 90% of their sexual encounters with bought women.
Are you talking about "indirectly" (ie the traditional route, courting, dating, and lying in order to get sex, or actually getting into a mutually agreed/beneficial arrangement, relationship or marriage) or "directly" (ie the escort thing) when you mention 90%?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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