"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Methods for hooking up with a HB that's moving out of town

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Ok long story short, I've been chatting up a HB7 dance partner. Got her number and had a blast salsa dancing last friday (she wore the shortest skirt that night and I could tell she is really into me). Turns out however that she's moving across country to college in 3 weeks.

I'm not into long distance relationships, so is there a method for asking out and turning it into a quick lay? She's 18, so bars are out of the question.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Haha I'm in almost the same boat. I met this HB8 in my summer class and we've had a great time hanging out...we went dancing the other night with some of her girlfriends and she was stunning.

The problem is I'M the one leaving here in 3 weeks to go home for college.
 
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if you are sure she is into you....

1) invite her to do something where you and her are isolated. hopefully you have your own place, or don't have doosh bag roommates that will ruin the mood.

2) make a move.

good luck.
 
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hover411 said:
if you are sure she is into you....

1) invite her to do something where you and her are isolated. hopefully you have your own place, or don't have doosh bag roommates that will ruin the mood.

2) make a move.

good luck.
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I called her tonight to set up a dinner date, she liked the idea, so I'm in.

I live with my parents unfortunately, but they're cool enough to get out of my way if need be.

What should I do to move from the dinner to the bedroom? I was initially thinking of a watching a movie at home to get close (esp since she hasn't seen superbad). Your thoughts?
 
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Well since I couldn't make the date since I had the flu, she seems to be slipping out of my grip.

She texted me with "I'm not looking for anything romantic" but she's still open for hanging out. I figure I'll give it a shot anyways and see what happens. I got nothing else planned at the moment.

Has anyone experienced something similar that would work for me?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sounds like you just got "friend zoned",

just invite her out to do something non-romantic. just enjoy her company and don't make any moves. work on your game or edge, but don't try any advances or anything gay like that. enjoy it for what it is worth. if you can spark some attraction she will let you know.
 
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hover411 said:
sounds like you just got "friend zoned",

just invite her out to do something non-romantic. just enjoy her company and don't make any moves. work on your game or edge, but don't try any advances or anything gay like that. enjoy it for what it is worth. if you can spark some attraction she will let you know.
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That's a shame, I was hoping that was code for fvck buddies. It'll still be fun, but thanks for the heads up. I won't try any moves until I get signals from her.
 
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