"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Methods for hooking up with a HB that's moving out of town

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Ok long story short, I've been chatting up a HB7 dance partner. Got her number and had a blast salsa dancing last friday (she wore the shortest skirt that night and I could tell she is really into me). Turns out however that she's moving across country to college in 3 weeks.

I'm not into long distance relationships, so is there a method for asking out and turning it into a quick lay? She's 18, so bars are out of the question.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Haha I'm in almost the same boat. I met this HB8 in my summer class and we've had a great time hanging out...we went dancing the other night with some of her girlfriends and she was stunning.

The problem is I'M the one leaving here in 3 weeks to go home for college.
 
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if you are sure she is into you....

1) invite her to do something where you and her are isolated. hopefully you have your own place, or don't have doosh bag roommates that will ruin the mood.

2) make a move.

good luck.
 
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hover411 said:
if you are sure she is into you....

1) invite her to do something where you and her are isolated. hopefully you have your own place, or don't have doosh bag roommates that will ruin the mood.

2) make a move.

good luck.
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I called her tonight to set up a dinner date, she liked the idea, so I'm in.

I live with my parents unfortunately, but they're cool enough to get out of my way if need be.

What should I do to move from the dinner to the bedroom? I was initially thinking of a watching a movie at home to get close (esp since she hasn't seen superbad). Your thoughts?
 
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Well since I couldn't make the date since I had the flu, she seems to be slipping out of my grip.

She texted me with "I'm not looking for anything romantic" but she's still open for hanging out. I figure I'll give it a shot anyways and see what happens. I got nothing else planned at the moment.

Has anyone experienced something similar that would work for me?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sounds like you just got "friend zoned",

just invite her out to do something non-romantic. just enjoy her company and don't make any moves. work on your game or edge, but don't try any advances or anything gay like that. enjoy it for what it is worth. if you can spark some attraction she will let you know.
 
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hover411 said:
sounds like you just got "friend zoned",

just invite her out to do something non-romantic. just enjoy her company and don't make any moves. work on your game or edge, but don't try any advances or anything gay like that. enjoy it for what it is worth. if you can spark some attraction she will let you know.
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That's a shame, I was hoping that was code for fvck buddies. It'll still be fun, but thanks for the heads up. I won't try any moves until I get signals from her.
 
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