"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Method for approaching girl

Shalashaska07

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Ok so there's this girl I like and I've recently discovered she has myspace (although it's set to private). I've never spoken to her and she doesn't know who I am or nothing, but I seen her on the bus I used to get on months ago, but couldn't find the bottle to say anything. So I know what school she goes to so I'm either planning on a) sending her a message via myspace or b) seeing if I can spot her in town on her lunch break one day and approaching her. Option b) is a gamble as I might not see her, but I'm fairly certain I will eventually, as it's only a small town. I was wondering what option you guys would advise me to pursue? I'm extremely picky and this girl is the only girl I've fancied in a long time, so I'd rather try and fail than not try at all. Any help would be appreciated.

Thanks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Shalashaska07

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Cheers for the tip Emotion_sponge. Sounds like something that could be very effective. Yeah I don't really want to come off as some sort of stalker.. I prefer to call it reconnaissance :p
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

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