"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ok so there's this girl I like and I've recently discovered she has myspace (although it's set to private). I've never spoken to her and she doesn't know who I am or nothing, but I seen her on the bus I used to get on months ago, but couldn't find the bottle to say anything. So I know what school she goes to so I'm either planning on a) sending her a message via myspace or b) seeing if I can spot her in town on her lunch break one day and approaching her. Option b) is a gamble as I might not see her, but I'm fairly certain I will eventually, as it's only a small town. I was wondering what option you guys would advise me to pursue? I'm extremely picky and this girl is the only girl I've fancied in a long time, so I'd rather try and fail than not try at all. Any help would be appreciated.

Thanks.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Cheers for the tip Emotion_sponge. Sounds like something that could be very effective. Yeah I don't really want to come off as some sort of stalker.. I prefer to call it reconnaissance :p
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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