"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Metalhead.

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Hey, I'm new, but not really I just took a 6 month break. Anyways, I can't get any girls in my school because everyone is afraid of me. I am a metal head, I listen to Slipknot, Slayer, Korn the bit. I have been to jail for a bunch of charges so I can see how some girls might be hezitant, but it's been two and half months in my new school and I can't get any girl, please help me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you dress like a 'Metalhead' you can change that your looks dont have to determine what you listen to. or if you like the look for some reason? look for girls who are the same but basically the music you listen to shouldnt change your personality so dont blame it on that.
 

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I don't though. Girls don't take the time to get to know me because of my image.
 

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change your image then. i know a guy who is huge into metal (no jail time though) but he dresses really preppy and works fine for him. another guy is a huge rap fan and has been to jail and juvee (shot a kid, grand theft auto etc) and he dresses in hollister and shiit which he steals lol. works fine and girls actually like the surprise.

but theres really nothing girls dislike more than a guy in a stained metallica shirt and no social skills with outrageous attention paid to his mowhawk. make sure you shower and all, dress to impress and all that shiit. you have great potential.
 
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