"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Metalhead.

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Hey, I'm new, but not really I just took a 6 month break. Anyways, I can't get any girls in my school because everyone is afraid of me. I am a metal head, I listen to Slipknot, Slayer, Korn the bit. I have been to jail for a bunch of charges so I can see how some girls might be hezitant, but it's been two and half months in my new school and I can't get any girl, please help me.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If you dress like a 'Metalhead' you can change that your looks dont have to determine what you listen to. or if you like the look for some reason? look for girls who are the same but basically the music you listen to shouldnt change your personality so dont blame it on that.
 

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I don't though. Girls don't take the time to get to know me because of my image.
 

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change your image then. i know a guy who is huge into metal (no jail time though) but he dresses really preppy and works fine for him. another guy is a huge rap fan and has been to jail and juvee (shot a kid, grand theft auto etc) and he dresses in hollister and shiit which he steals lol. works fine and girls actually like the surprise.

but theres really nothing girls dislike more than a guy in a stained metallica shirt and no social skills with outrageous attention paid to his mowhawk. make sure you shower and all, dress to impress and all that shiit. you have great potential.
 
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