MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Hmm interesting... Dante = Dogg?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
a) That's how I do them. I just don't bother listing all three parts, but if you saw my Sunday workout, I had listed all 3 parts there. I figured it to be assumed when I posted that I was going to do DC.Originally posted by semag
couple things bro...
a)you know the acutal mechanics of rest-pause aren't like that right??? Rest-pause, dante style, is where you do one set, up around 8-10, then take 15 deep breaths, and crank out again, you should be able to get about half your first set... 15 breaths, one more set.... hit like half the second... all in all = 8-4-2 or so like that... which ends up @ like 15 -20 reps
b) lat stretch, you strap your wrists to a bar and hang.....
Not all your exercises are DC approved; but if you can keep progressing then they're fine.Originally posted by MetalFortress
a) That's how I do them. I just don't bother listing all three parts, but if you saw my Sunday workout, I had listed all 3 parts there. I figured it to be assumed when I posted that I was going to do DC.
b) I need to find the straps in my gym first. I'm not even sure it has any.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You really need to read Cycles for Pennies again. These exercises you picked show you either haven't really read it well or you are working in a not-so-well-equipped gym and if the latter is true, then DC training is something you should not attempt.Originally posted by MetalFortress
Workout 1
CHEST:
1) DB Incline Bench Press
2) DB Bench Press
3) DB Decline Bench Press
Too much DB work. Swap out one of these and throw in a chest machine and swap out another for something on the smith.
SHOULDERS:
1) Olympic Jerks
2) BB Military Press
3) Power Cleans
Just stick to pressing movements. Take out the Olympic lifts.
TRICEPS:
1) Dips
2) Close Grip Rack Bench
3) CG Incline Bench
BACK WIDTH:
1) Pulldowns (underhand grip)
2) Pulldowns (overhand grip)
3) Pulldowns (hammer grip)
Too much pull-downs! Add rack chins.
BACK THICKNESS:
1) Deadlifts
2) Rack Deadlifts
3) Hammer Row
Workout 2
BICEPS:
1) BB curls
2) BB spider curls
3) cable curls
FOREARMS:
1) BB Standing Wrist Curls
2) Clean grip deadlifts
3) DB alternating hammer curls
I'm not sure what #2 is but I'd take out the wrist curls and put in pinwheel curls. Dante has me doing a really really nice fore-arm exercise but I cannot list it as it is part of why I pay him to train me, sorry.
CALVES:
1) Hack Squat Calf Press (one leg)
2) Supine Leg Press Calf Press (one leg)
3) Leg Press Calf Press (one leg)
Why one leg at a time????
HAMSTRINGS:
1) Sumo Deadlift
2) Power Snatch
3) Stiff Legged Deadlift
Sumo Deadlift is not going to work hams. Take out the Olympic lift.
QUADS:
1) Hack Squat
2) Supine Leg Press
3) Front Squat
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.