HalfAddict
Master Don Juan
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Kicking ass man!
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Get more sleep so as not to be tiredOriginally posted by MetalFortress
Thanks bro.
Too tired today... halfway towards passing out. So how the hell did I set two PR's today?
FRONT SQUAT:
135x5
185x5
195x5 (5-rep PR)
190x5
185x5
230x0
220x1 (1-rep PR)
Lowered the volume because of being tired and because my wrists are taking a beating from the heavier lifts. Nevertheless, a PR is always good. It gives an adrenaline rush to see the bar beginning to bend from the weight. I'll hit 230 when I'm not tired as hell.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Great workout man! You finally took my 5x187 Front squat down bigtime!Originally posted by MetalFortress
Thanks bro.
Too tired today... halfway towards passing out. So how the hell did I set two PR's today?
FRONT SQUAT:
135x5
185x5
195x5 (5-rep PR)
190x5
185x5
230x0
220x1 (1-rep PR)
Lowered the volume because of being tired and because my wrists are taking a beating from the heavier lifts. Nevertheless, a PR is always good. It gives an adrenaline rush to see the bar beginning to bend from the weight. I'll hit 230 when I'm not tired as hell.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
LOL !!!! thank god no one got hurt, but it's funny as hell... a collar toppled over an olympic rack =DOriginally posted by MetalFortress
haha that would have been funny if you did the first one... one time an olympic lifter at my old high school was doing front squat and jerks, dropped the weight onto the stepup stool, and sent the collar shooting across the weight room, knocking over an olympic rack and missing a baseball player by about 1 inch.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
And thanks for the tip btw. I train alone so I don't have any way of doing forced reps.B) Every exercise is done with a controlled but explosive positive and a true 6-8 second negative phase. The science is there just read it. Almost every study states an explosive positive motion is the priming phase and the negative portion of an exercise should be done controlled and slowly. I have the mindset that I hope you guys develop. I try so hard to get the weight up only for the sole reason I can lower it slowly to cause eccentric phase cellular damage.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.