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Master Don Juan
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Kicking ass man!
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Get more sleep so as not to be tiredOriginally posted by MetalFortress
Thanks bro.
Too tired today... halfway towards passing out. So how the hell did I set two PR's today?
FRONT SQUAT:
135x5
185x5
195x5 (5-rep PR)
190x5
185x5
230x0
220x1 (1-rep PR)
Lowered the volume because of being tired and because my wrists are taking a beating from the heavier lifts. Nevertheless, a PR is always good. It gives an adrenaline rush to see the bar beginning to bend from the weight. I'll hit 230 when I'm not tired as hell.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Great workout man! You finally took my 5x187 Front squat down bigtime!Originally posted by MetalFortress
Thanks bro.
Too tired today... halfway towards passing out. So how the hell did I set two PR's today?
FRONT SQUAT:
135x5
185x5
195x5 (5-rep PR)
190x5
185x5
230x0
220x1 (1-rep PR)
Lowered the volume because of being tired and because my wrists are taking a beating from the heavier lifts. Nevertheless, a PR is always good. It gives an adrenaline rush to see the bar beginning to bend from the weight. I'll hit 230 when I'm not tired as hell.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
LOL !!!! thank god no one got hurt, but it's funny as hell... a collar toppled over an olympic rack =DOriginally posted by MetalFortress
haha that would have been funny if you did the first one... one time an olympic lifter at my old high school was doing front squat and jerks, dropped the weight onto the stepup stool, and sent the collar shooting across the weight room, knocking over an olympic rack and missing a baseball player by about 1 inch.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
And thanks for the tip btw. I train alone so I don't have any way of doing forced reps.B) Every exercise is done with a controlled but explosive positive and a true 6-8 second negative phase. The science is there just read it. Almost every study states an explosive positive motion is the priming phase and the negative portion of an exercise should be done controlled and slowly. I have the mindset that I hope you guys develop. I try so hard to get the weight up only for the sole reason I can lower it slowly to cause eccentric phase cellular damage.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.