"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Met this chick at my job. (Read it.)

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I had a job in marina del ray bartending for an employee party. There was a girl there who was setting everything up before the party began. Hm details. Ah well let me think. We made eye contact a few times so I knew she was attracted to me. I remembered a post where someone said the person you're very attracted to are also just as or more attracted to you. I decided to go off that and Bla bla bla. Man I really hate details. But anyways later in the night I pulled her aside and talked to her while serving her drinks. We had a good convo and she was very curious about me (she asked alot of questions. Maybe too many questions. o_O). She was a cute half breed like me (Black and white). 26 years old. (A year older than me) I got her number at the end of the night and told her we'd hang out soon. She got my number also.


I tossed her number out. I don't feel like dealing with women right now.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Well done an the approach/number close. Nothing wrong with keeping up the practice :)
 
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so you tried to C.A a girl at your own job? if you did for intentions of setting a relationship, S-T-U-P-I-D! im glad you dropped her number at the end.

work relationships never work out. dont believe me? (go do some research)
 
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Actually the company I worked for was based in downdown Los Angeles. We were helping out another company by hosting a dinner for them out in marina del ray. It's like if the staff at a mc donald's branch were having a party, and they crew from burger king helped out and served food. That's what it pretty much was.

So no, I didn't work with her. She looked like a good lay too.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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